So I am the dad whose daughter is applying for transfer back to the US from Oxford… Here are a few things to share from our experience:
(1) Oxford STEM vs. Oxford Humanities
My son is studying Mathematics (Year 2) and my daughter Italian & Linguistics (Year 1), both at Oxford… While Mathematics (top in the UK with Cambridge) is demanding, humanities are downright intense… My son is cruising with time for a variety of extracurricular activities, but my daughter’s weekly assignments are nearly impossible, despite the fact that she is doing quite well on her courses…
(2) LAC Academic Culture vs. Oxford Academic Culture
LACs are known to be very supportive of their students’ transition into college, not so for Ox… Their philosophy is more like “we will throw you into the deep water and see if you will drown or float”… [They believe you will (eventually) float… because they have screened you through their admission tests and interviews… They believe in their judgements and experiences…] But still, it is like breaking you down before building you back up… It takes some getting used to especially for US students accustomed to getting A/A+ without too much of an effort…
(3) LAC Professors vs. Oxford Tutors
Again, LAC Professors are known to be caring and supportive, not so with Ox… The relationship between tutors and students is mostly academic… “strictly business” (if I may say)… In addition, while my daughter’s younger tutors are mostly friendly and kind, some older and more traditional professors / tutors can be stern and even mean… My daughter is very sensitive and did not like seeing herself or her friends embarrassed or intimated…
(4) Liberal Arts Flexibility vs. Oxford Rigidity
Last summer, my daughter was choosing between Classics and Linguistics… She could choose one of the two, but not both… so she ended up with Italian with Linguistics… She would have chosen Classics if they had allowed her to study only Latin (without Greek), but the tutor thought she was too advanced in Latin and must do both Latin and Greek…
You see how rigid Ox can be? In the US, you devise your study plan (with certain requirements to fulfill); at Oxford, they decide on the study plan (with some choices in later years)…
That’s one prime motivation for her to transfer because having set aside Latin for a time, she really wants it back… together with Linguistics… She also likes sampling a variety of courses, including STEM subjects… All these will not be possible at Oxford…
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Having laid down some negatives about Oxford system, I do want to highlight one big plus about the school – namely that it is an elite university filled with students with abilities, curiosity and intensity… (and our children felt that too…)
My daughter is a pretty laid-back child with no ambition and has little regard for prestige, but she brightens up, comes alive, becomes intensely engaged when she stumbles upon things she loves… Latin and Linguistics are among those things… And when you put a bunch of kids like that… on a college campus… over a few years… It can be magical…
I grew up attending an excellent secondary school with smart and very capable classmates… But not until I got to MIT, did I realize that school could be that much fun… The collective brilliance, curiosity and intensity… shifted everything into “warp speed”… and it was breathtaking…
So while I see my son and daughter more as future “high school teachers” than “high-powered investment bankers,” I do not want them to miss out on that thrilling ride…
A couple of days ago, my daughter had an interview with an Swarthmore alum… The interviewer is currently a professor at Bucknell and has taught at a couple of other schools also… My daughter asked him how Swarthmore is like when compared to those other schools… He said Swarthmore is definitely nerdier and more intense… At the end of the interview, he said to my daughter, “Having talked to you, I don’t think you will fit in the other schools…”
I think the interviewer is right. Despite my daughter’s dislike of Oxford, we saw visible growths in her, even within a few months. Intellectually, she has developed muscles she did not even know exist, and I think she will be ready for any school back in the US. [Of course, the social fit is also very important.] We just hope that she will find the same type of student body she encounters at Oxford.
I don’t know enough about Colorado College to comment… How important are academics to you? How hard do you want to work? Academically and in terms of student body, is Colorado College closer to Bucknell or Swarthmore or Oxford? I think it is worth thinking through…
I don’t know if you ED Colorado College or just EA… Do you have other decisions coming up? Hopefully you will have some choices between CC and Ox…