<p>Hey everyone!</p>
<p>I took a break from public posting for Lent, but have been ruminating on the following post M10 questions/issues.... </p>
<p>What was up with the multiple M10 results threads?
While I wasnt posting over Lent, I was popping in occasionally to see if any interesting threads developed. I was looking forward to checking a single results thread, as has materialized somewhat organically over the past few app cycles. Instead, this year, I saw chaos.</p>
<p>Going forward (and I guess well be part of next app cycle with SevenDaughter MkII) I think people should pick up the format of this thread (<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-admissions/1299461-official-list-2012-acceptances.html%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-admissions/1299461-official-list-2012-acceptances.html</a>) no earlier than M6 or 7. This will prevent the premature threads that get 3 pages of posts before any results come in.</p>
<p>I also think some folks were a little overboard in what sorts of info they asked people to share early on stats, etc. Having been a witness (and participant) to this particular rodeo before, the separate stats thread (post A10) seems to work best when kept separate. Here is the one from 2012: <a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-admissions/1300729-2012-clean-official-boarding-decisions-applicant-stats-ecs.html%5B/url%5D">http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-admissions/1300729-2012-clean-official-boarding-decisions-applicant-stats-ecs.html</a></p>
<p>Why dont people take the Its really hard to get into the more selective/more famous schools and if you are intent on going to boarding school you should probably apply to one ore more hidden gems. message seriously?
As usual, many dashed dreams on 3/10/13. And what appeared to be varying degrees of surprise.</p>
<p>I realize that I have turned into a broken record with respect to this topic, but how many times do I (and many other parents with kids in or already graduated from schools) have to post about how competitive the BS scene is before people get the point?</p>
<p>Maybe people have to get the cold water splash themselves to really understand?</p>
<p>I hate to keep using my older daughter as an example, but again: She was one question away from a perfect score on the SSAT, and according to the Duke TiP charts (based on 7th grade SAT scores) is in the top 0.5% of all US kids her grade...thats the top half of the top 1%, not top 5%. With good (not great) ECs and honor roll grades to boot. Great interviewer, extremely comfortable talking to adults.</p>
<p>Yet she was flat out rejected by Choate two cycles ago. If she can get rejected, you/your child can get rejected. And if you apply EXCLUSIVELY to schools with acceptance rates as low as Choates (and lower!), you may find you have zero choices on March 10.</p>
<p>I know that some families have a go big or stay home approach, and thats all fine and good (though not our particular philosophy). I will only add that at SAS (which many consider second tier), where my daughter is happily finishing up her sophomore year after choosing the school over SPS on 4/10/11, she is academically challenged and certainly not cruising to easy As in all her classes.</p>
<p>For people who look more toward college matrics as the measure of a BSs quality, I can only say that I think most kids who get into Ivies these days would be able to do so from any school, even their local public school.</p>
<p>Why did people apply to schools to which they had little interest in attending?
I saw at least one I got WLd at Exoverhotch Hall, but I did get into Secondtier Academy
but I dont really want to go to SA
what should I do? type post in the wake of M10.</p>
<p>My only point here is Why did you even apply to a school you werent that into? I know things can change especially after revisits or if you sent in a application before your visit/interview. But other than that, applying to schools you dont want to attend is a waste of your time, and that of the people who have to process and read your application.</p>
<p>Why are people wondering about dress codes AFTER they were admitted?
This is another puzzling thing for me to fuss about after youve applied. If you cant abide by a schools dress code (and dont get me started on that), then why did you apply? The school wasnt going to change its rules for you. And dont fool yourself, unless you are in that very small percentage of truly unique/eclectic/follow-my-own-tune group of individuals, you too are just wearing some sort of uniform.</p>
<p>Uggs? Uniform. Abercombie? Uniform. Busted Converses? Uniform. Flip-flops? Uniform. Body con skirts/dresses? Uniform. Colored hair? Uniform.</p>
<p>A FINAL WORD TO PEOPLE (ESPECIALLY PARENTS) GOING TO REVISITS THIS WEEK:
As tempted as you may be to ask, DO NOT ask seniors where they got in/are going to college. Some folks may not have received the news they wanted recently and your question just rubs salt in the wound. Resist. Resist. Resist. Ask the administrators or underclassmen what the vibe is...not the seniors.</p>
<p>Happy Easter. Running out to church now in my Easter uniform.</p>