This post is not for me (I’m a freshman in college), it is for a friend who is a senior in high school.
My friend’s parents are divorced and my friend lives with both of them equally (same time). Their father has a higher income (~$140k) and supports the friend and the friend’s siblings, as well as pays child support. Their mother has a lower income (~70k) and will not contribute to the children’s college education.
Normally, the father would be the one on the FAFSA/CSS Profile and then the noncustodial parent (mother) would fill out the noncustodial profile (or something like that). This is where the issue comes up.
My friend’s mother lives with her boyfriend, whose income is extremely high ($200-300k+), but will not contribute to my friend’s education as it is not his child. My friend’s mother has not married the boyfriend and I do not believe they are planing to marry.
The father recently lost his job and will be taking a huge pay cut as a result, and may be unable to pay for my friend’s college. Still, neither the mother nor her boyfriend will contribute. I advised the friend to see where they got in before worrying, but it’s either their state school or $60k/year at a private school (which requires the CSS profile and NCP). They probably couldn’t make the latter happen. I believe my friend will have to ask each school specifically after admission, but am unsure as to how that may play out.
Main questions:
Will the mother have to report her boyfriend’s income on the NCP, as they are not remarried but are living together?
If so, will private institutions (such as Harvard and Cornell) take this into account? Will they take into account the noncustodial parent’s income even though the NC parent won’t contribute to the education?
Even with the lost job, will my friend’s EFC still model someone who makes $140k? Will the schools take into account the lost job?
Finally, any words of encouragement I can give to my friend? I know they’d be devastated if accepted to one of the private institutions and have to turn it down. It happened to me, but it was a tad different as I didn’t qualify for any aid. Specifically, one of the private institutions in play is Harvard (including this as they’re known for their financial aid policies).