<p>Assuming I get decent grades in my core classes, will a study seem like I'm slacking?Lum,</p>
<p>You alos need to read the finanical aid policy of the schools which you are applying to to see how they treat non-custodial parents. Many schools that require both the FAFSA and the CSS profile take into consideration the income and assets of both your parents as FA is predicated on your parents being the primary source of financing your education. At some schools if your non-custodial parents has the assets to pay and refuses to pay the school will not be a reason to adjust your FA package. </p>
<p>BC states the following:</p>
<p>*In cases where parents are divorced, separated, or were never married, the noncustodial parent's taxes, including all schedules and W-2 forms, must also be submitted using the same schedule of deadlines in order to be considered for Boston College grants and scholarships.</p>
<p>Noncustodial Parent's Statement</p>
<p>In cases where the parents are divorced, separated, or were never married, the Noncustodial Parent's Statement is required for any student who would like to be considered for Boston College grants and scholarships. Beginning in the fall of 2004, CSS is introducing a web-based application process for the Noncustodial Parent's Statement. Instructions regarding this process will be provided when you complete the PROFILE.*</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bc.edu/admission/undergrad/costs/#profile%5B/url%5D">http://www.bc.edu/admission/undergrad/costs/#profile</a></p>
<p>BU</p>
<p>How is Eligibility Determined when the Parents are Not Married to Each Other?
It is Boston University policy to expect information and financial support from both biological/adoptive parents of students applying to the University for financial aid. The custodial parent is the parent with whom the student primarily lives. He/she is required to provide income, asset, and other information on both the CSS PROFILE and FAFSA. The noncustodial parent is expected to provide information on the Noncustodial PROFILE. If either parent has re-married, the stepparent's information must be included.</p>
<p>What is the Noncustodial PROFILE?
The Noncustodial PROFILE is an online application similar to the PROFILE on which noncustodial parents of first time aid applicants report their income, asset, and other information. If the student's biological/adoptive parents are divorced, separated or were never married to each other, the student will be sent an e-mail upon completion of the registration portion of the PROFILE. The e-mail will include a link to the Noncustodial PROFILE application. The student will be instructed to forward that e-mail to their noncustodial parent. The noncustodial parent will, upon accessing the application, be instructed to immediately change the password, thus securing the privacy of his/her information. Boston University will not release, electronically or otherwise, the income and asset information of divorced/separated parents to the other parent.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bu.edu/finaid/special/ncp.shtml%5B/url%5D">http://www.bu.edu/finaid/special/ncp.shtml</a></p>
<p>Gives the probability of giving aid</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bu.edu/finaid/apply/prospective/possibility2.shtml%5B/url%5D">http://www.bu.edu/finaid/apply/prospective/possibility2.shtml</a></p>
<p>Conn College</p>
<p>*I am divorced and the non-custodial parent feels that he/she does not have to support the student after age 18.</p>
<p>Answer: In the case of a divorce or separation, our policy is that both parents, regardless of any special arrangements that are made, are responsible for funding the cost of education. The non-custodial parent is required to complete the Non-Custodial Parent Statement on the College Board website.</p>
<p>Question: The non-custodial parent has not given us support (money or otherwise) since we were divorced ten years ago, we have had no contact with him/her nor do we know where he/she currently lives. What are my options since you require the Non-Custodial Parent Statement and your philosophy is that both parents are responsible for the student's education </p>
<p>Answer: We will need third party documentation. We need a letter from someone who has intimate knowledge of the family situation and someone who has known the family for many years - preferably since the divorce. It could be your divorce lawyer, a counselor, social worker, or a pastor. The person needs to be able to address the issue that the other parent has not been in the picture. </p>
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<li>A guidance counselor who only knows that the non-custodial parent has not attended any activities at school is not acceptable.
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<p><a href="http://www.conncoll.edu/offices/financial-aid/09qa.html%5B/url%5D">http://www.conncoll.edu/offices/financial-aid/09qa.html</a></p>
<p>You potentially could end up between a rock and hard place because if your father makes $150,000 there is going to be an expectation that he help fund your education because he is able to do so. It really would be unrealistic to apply to a school that cost $40,000 per year because there is a possiblity that you may end up being a full pay student.</p>
<p>I would suggest having a hard talk with both your parents to find out what they are realistically are going to pay for your education.</p>