I’m currently a sophomore. And to be completely honest, I’d say I’m doing pretty well in my first year of real high school (9th grade was at our “Junior High School”.) I am ranked top 5 in my class of about 600, I have a solid 4.0 UW, and I’m taking 3 APs this year (and I’m finding them to be not to hard). I’m the president of my high school FBLA chapter. I’m sophomore class vice president. I’m pretty involved in other clubs at my school too. I’m helping my friend begin a water quality monitoring club. And currently I’m spearheading the creation of an iGEM team at my school. As for standardized testing, I’ve been actively prepping. I take SAT prep classes for 4 hours a week. And any spare time I have, I get out my workbooks and work on solving more problems. I got a pretty satisfactory score on my PSAT this year too. I would’ve most likely been a semifinalist if I had been a junior instead of a sophomore.
I know I am doing a lot. I would call my self pretty ambitious. And some people may think I’m putting too much on my plate, but I’m kinda the type that just feels more stress when I sit around and waste time. So I always try to aim high and push myself.
Sometimes, I feel like I’m doing pretty well. Like hey, Sarah, give yourself a pat on the back!! You’re doing great! But other times, (most times), I’m honestly terrified that I still will never make it into my dream college. When I read the stats of the people who got accepted, they’re goddarn amazing. Like what the heck. Are you even human?! Then, I read the stats of the people who got rejected. AND THEY ARE JUST AS GODDARN AMAZING. I mean some of these people, they do research to cure cancer or something! In other words, I realized that what I thought to be fairly good accomplishments may be nothing compared the accomplishments of others. In fact, it turn out students like me are just a dime a dozen when applying to dream colleges. I have nothing to set me apart.
And I realize how toxic comparing myself to other can be… But unfortunately, isn’t this whole college admissions thing just one big comparison, where they compare you against thousands of other applicants to see if they are better than you or not? If even THOSE people with got rejected, how am I going to have a shot…?
Heck, I’m only fifteen. And maybe it’s too soon to start worrying about these things. But just the thought that I might be outright rejected by everywhere terrifies me. What if it turns out I’m not good enough? What if I am putting in all this hard work, only to discover that I’m not enough for my dream college 2 years later?
That is the end of my midnight blabbering and rant… Thanks for dealing with me, ugh… I just needed somewhere to vent, because the thought has been tormenting me in the back of head lately. Any advice would really mean a lot to me.