So my situation has a long story behind it, but I’ll try to condense it for the purposes of this question:
Basically I live with my mom in an apartment and my father lives in a separate apartment in the same building. My parents don’t speak to each other and, for FAFSA purposes, are considered separated. I was feeling pretty confident in the amount of financial aid I would receive for college, considering that my mom only makes around $20k a year to support both my brother and I.
However, now researching further into applications, I’ve discovered that some colleges require the financial information of the noncustodial parent. My father makes around $70k a year plus has a bunch of assets in his name, including over 400k saved in his bank account. However, he has never given me financial support in my life. I am not even exaggerating when I say that my mother has paid for everything since the day I was born: my father wouldn’t even give her money for diapers. (My mom wanted a divorce, but my father did not want to pay alimony or child support.) He hasn’t been on speaking terms with us for years now.
The problem is that he definitely would not give me even a penny for college. So, I’m just wondering how completing the CSS profile would work in a situation like this. Would his income be weighed in? Because if so, I don’t see why he should affect the amount of financial aid I receive, and result in a financial burden for the only parent that would help me pay for college. I know that there is a CSS waiver, but I’m not sure if it would apply in my situation, especially considering that my father lives in the same building as me but just in a different apartment.
Of course there are merit scholarships that I could apply for and FAFSA-only schools that I could apply to, but a majority of the schools I’m interested in require the CSS and would probably have me be ineligible for merit scholarships.
I was just wondering if anyone could give me any advice about what to do with the CSS profile, because I’m feeling very overwhelmed with it right now. Thank you!