<p>the social life at fclc is by no means quiet. you live in a room with 5-8 other roommates, on a floor with about 57 students, in ONE BUILDING with about a thousand kids. that’s a lot of people in a very small space. so you’re apt to make friends.
the stereotype about fordham lc is that you have to seek out in order to get what you want, and that’s definitely true. you have to search out the people you want to be friends with. but with that said, there’s definitely a lot of ways to meet people, especially within the first month of school.
befriend your roommates and suitemates. even if you guys don’t end up being best friends, it’s nice to be able to come home to a room that isn’t full of hostility.
during orientation, don’t be shy! talk to everyone, introduce yourself. everyone is in the same boat- new place, don’t know anyone, so don’t worry about judgements and just meet people! everyone is very open to making friends during the first week or so, so definitely take advantage of that.
going off of that, in the first week/month/semester, spend as much time out of your room as possible. what i mean by that is take advantage of every opportunity you have to go to events, programs, gatherings, the study lounge, the laundry room, the plaza, the cafeteria, wherever! the more you’re out and about, the more likely you are to strike up a conversation with someone you’ve seen around and make a few friends. it may seem intimidating at first, but it’s definitely the way to do it. i was barely in my suite first semester because i went to almost every program they put on at school, and i met tons of awesome friends that i wouldn’t have met otherwise through those little events and gatherings clubs and oslcd puts on.
going off of that, the study lounge is really a place to get to know people, especially if you go to the “freshman” study lounge on 5. i bonded with so many of my classmates this year over the readings we were forced to do the night before at 2 in the morning together in that study lounge.
JOIN. A. CLUB. get involved! we have sooo many clubs, and a club day very early in the semester so you’re able to see what we have to offer and join up super quick. you meet people with similar interests, and are able to get involved in the fordham community (and more likely than not, give back as well, since we have tons of community service and social justice organizations, which are always fun to do). i joined USG the second week of school, and it was the best thing i could ever have done. i met soo many people, through the club and campaigning for senator, and the people in student government are some of my closest friends. it really does pay off to get involved.
also, don’t worry about not being a “party girl”. it may feel at first like everyone else is going out every night and getting trashed, but just remember that in the end, you’re the one that is getting the most out of your education by valuing everything fordham has to offer, not just it’s location to this second’s hottest 18 plus club.
another thing that is really fun to do is, once you have a few potential friends phone numbers and are able to text them, find some awesome things going on in the city that they might not know about (by searching time out new york, village voice, etc) rally a few of them together, and have a fun time exploring whether this “awesome” thing you found really is cool, or a complete bust. it’s so much fun exploring the city and seeing every different thing that’s out there, especially with new friends!
the thing about college is that everyone finds a friend. i’m not calling you this person, but remember that girl/guy that was always alone at lunch? at college, even that person is able to make a connection with someone else. so i’m sure you will too. :)</p>