<p>-Cries too much
-Clingy
-Too opinionated
-Looks down on people just because they smoke, drink, have sex or less than holier-than-thou (Not that I do illicit/controversial activities, but I just hate self-righteousness)
-Pretentious
-Can't have a stimulating conversation
-Talks too much/Loud/Obnoxious
-Ugly
-Immature
-Does gross things and finds it amusing/bad hygiene
-Has no passion or at least deep knowledge about anything.
-Not funny
-Easily embarrassed/Takes everything too seriously
-Cares about Facebook/Myspace more than real life.
-Thinks everything is a joke
-Has no tolerance or respect for the differences of others.
-Has no sensuality or charm</p>
<p>I believe turn offs in a girl will be</p>
<p>-Can't communicate
-Trust, really important
-BE AN AMAZING FRIEND (1st of all)
-Someone who is not UNDERSTANDING
-Disrespectful</p>
<p>Wait a minute... listens to Rush as in the band? Or Rush Limbaugh? Let's clarify a bit...</p>
<p>is either one really acceptable?</p>
<p>first of all, chuy's list wins--it's pretty fabulous. now mine:</p>
<p>UNACCEPTABLE:
-he cares more about his appearance than i care about mine
-he's religious
-he's not smart enough
-he prefers music lacking actual instruments
-he doesn't read (doesn't have to be classic novels; reading newspapers at least is acceptable. reading trashy fantasy novels is not.)
-he has no interest in politics (or, worse, is a neo-conservative)
-he voted for mccain/PALIN; loves reagan
-he can't grow facial hair
-he doesn't understand sarcasm, or understands sarcasm but doesn't appreciate it
-he's boring in bed/is not a "giver"
-he doesn't like my friends/my friends don't like him
-his friends suck
-he thinks weed is actually a drug
-he does drugs that are cooked up in some grad student's chem lab/must be injected
-he's a snobby vegan
-he's a snobby protestor
-he's a snobby musician
-he's a snob
-his family sucks
-he has no goals, plans, or motivation
-he doesn't make me laugh. all the time.
-he likes duke</p>
<p>Watches porn</p>
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he likes duke
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i can agree with this
particuarly after the game tonight :</p>
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<p>watching porn isn't a total deal breaker, but it bothers me A LOT--i'm pretty opposed to porn because i think it degrades women.</p>
<p>If you won't date a guy who watches porn, you might as well turn lesbo.</p>
<p>[/kidding]</p>
<p>[/or am I?]</p>
<p>^ there are girls that watch porn too... or at least have watched it at some point in their lives</p>
<p>I personally don't think porn degrades women - it depicts women being openly sexual out of their own free will, and i don't see what's so degrading about that. But I understand some women get very upset if they catch their boyfriend with porn. personally, I don't care if he jacks off to a playboy now and then, as long as he's not getting his rocks off with another girl. I would get upset if he asked me to take down my poster of a nearly naked chace crawford off my wall :)</p>
<p>anyway...turn-offs for me:
judgmental
ugly
fat
SNORES - my god, I would strangle him in his sleep!
says negative stuff about my body - i'd be fine with him pointing out if I gained weight, btw. just don't bother me about things I can't control because I'm already very self-concious of them
smokes
vegan/vegatarian
can't make me laugh
gels his hair</p>
<p>Mcb52, it's true. My friends and I, on a bored Saturday night, purchased the Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee sex tape. Words cannot describe the sheer magnitude of that man's "talent".</p>
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<p>You know, I'm pretty sure lesbians watch porn as much as guys, so... you're looking at a dating pool of priests I suppose.</p>
<p>lol, I watch porn sometimes. I don't object to guys who watch it but they just can't be like, obsessed with it.
Things which turn me off:
-drug use (other than pot)
-complaining about having no money but buys cigarettes and alcohol (I don't care if you smoke and drink, but don't whine about being broke if you are smoking a pack a day. s.t.f.u., seriously)
-is a total cheap ass. won't occasionally pick up the tab when we go out
-is really boring
-makes fun of me for the weird sci-fi/fantasy shows and movies that I like
-is ridiculously obsessed with sports (I like most sports, but quit OMGFREAKINGOUT because the steelers won the superbowl or whatever.)
-sucks in bed
-takes more time to get ready to go out than I do (I'm an hour tops including shower, picking out clothes, makeup and hair)
-is an airhead/pretty but not smart</p>
<p>I agree with leah also, I don't like dating religious guys or really conservative guys (usually go hand in hand where I live, but not always). Everyone I've ever dated has been either atheist or basically incredibly chill about religion.
And stargazerlilies, OMG I hate guys who snore too! I hate people in general who snore. The guy I'm with currently snores a little esp. if he's been drinking so I usually have to roll over and elbow him so he can turn on his side. But he's not really loud, fortunately. My friend and ex-roommate's exbf used to snore ridiculously loud and I hated him because of it!!</p>
<p>I believe a girl has to be open and confident to talk about sex</p>
<p>communication anyone?</p>
<p>(most important factor)</p>
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<p>Well, I'm not sure if you've read my other posts, but I'm a guy.</p>
<p>GIRLS: What do you mean by "sucks in bed"?????</p>
<p>I'd say they probably mean isn't good at sexual activity.</p>
<p>^ sucks in bed can also mean snoring. you don't have to be outstandingly-over-the-top in bed as long as you don't snore. light, occasional snoring is fine - we all do it - but loud obnoxious snoring? sorry, i'll have to suffocate you with my pillow and deal with the consequences after i've had a solid night's sleep :)</p>
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<p>Agreed. To anyone who feels that porn degrades women, how do you feel about queer porn where there is no one to supposedly degrade?</p>
<p>Not that I watch any porn very often, but I don't see how it's degrading if a woman is voluntarily does porn and enjoys it. As long as one is not obsessed with it, it's not a deal breaker.</p>