Dating deal breakers

<p>I cry when I'm hurt</p>

<p>lol</p>

<p>Crying for everything is not bueno though, I mean, when you cry about something emotionally it's hard/painful or when u cry for something physically too (like a broken burn, getting hit really hard on the testes, etc)</p>

<p>Crying often loses its meaning</p>

<p>I really don't have a large criteria of "deal breakers" when finding someone to date, though I do have some that I absolutely cannot tolerate.</p>

<p>1.) Lacks respect for our relationship, meaning he cheats and looks around for other women.
2.) Has different rules on the relationship. This isn't a personal flaw but I will not go for someone that does not share the same rules as me in a relationship. I'm not looking for a summer fling, I'm looking for something to blossom into a serious long term relationship. Not everyone is looking for this, which is fine, but I am so I'd prefer if we have the same relationship goals.
3.) Inability to carry a conversation.
4.) No drive or ambition with their life.
5.) Must respect my current profession. I'm a nude model (not porn), which makes some guys uncomfortable because I pose for men.</p>

<p>4.) No drive or ambition with their life.</p>

<p>that is big</p>

<p>with any person</p>

<p>No desire and no ambition=what is the point of living?</p>

<p>to add to my list:
-gets serious too fast
-says "i love you" too early</p>

<p>deal breakers. that s*** will scare me away so fast..</p>

<p>Yeah, saying something very meaninful or serious early like "I want to get married today"</p>

<p>is like "Yeah, um, about that...."</p>

<p>people who have too many rules is a turn off... some folks in here are either perfect 10s or crazy</p>

<p>Well there's a huge difference between being whiny and having an authentic emotion. Yeah, I'd agree whinyness is a turn-off, and maybe a complete deal-breaker in some cases.</p>

<p>LogicWarrior & Vompy basically said what I was thinking as I read through this thread</p>

<p>up there with no ambition or drive we should sneak in bad kisser
ahhh..</p>

<p>the ones that have made laugh the most are</p>

<p>watches porn and likes rap....</p>

<p>complains
no fat chicks
gossips
etc.</p>

<p>hey i listen to Rush!!!! Rush is cool!!</p>

<p>diamond/fake diamond stud earinngs
a pushover
emo
lacks respect for others
does things to try to impress others (such as drinking a ton)
being a lude/abnoxious drunk</p>

<p>Honestly, for me, a girl needs only two things to be attractive to me:</p>

<ol>
<li> Be cute.</li>
<li> Say something that blows my mind.</li>
</ol>

<p>I am a pretty deep guy who also has a very dark sense of humor. If a girl says something so deep, disturbing, or unexpected that it blows my mind then I'll be sold. If all I get to hear about is the weather then I would rather hang myself then continue the conversation.</p>

<p>^^you seem like the kinda guy i'll meet and randomly click with and then we never run into each other again. haha i've had some fabulously quirky conversations at parties..</p>

<p>euler321
i'm sure "**** me now" would pretty much blow any guy's mind</p>

<p>If a girl I literally just met said "f--- me now" ... I'd probably think it was some sort of trick. Because no girl I've just met has actually verbalized that, at least not in seriousness. Now, saying it with your eyes or body language ...</p>

<p>Oh yeah and about the crying.</p>

<p>If one of your immediate family members dies, and you don't cry in a transparent effort to seem like a stoic tough guy, you sir, are a p.ussy.</p>

<p>Wears too much makeup (or any eye shadow)
Smokes
Can't keep up an intelligent conversation
Isn't into anything spontaneous
Has no ambition
Wants to be a stay-at-home mom
Wants more than two kids (I'd be fine with that if 2/3 are twins)
Has kids
Dresses really promiscuously
Has no class
Is ultra religious
Is ultra conservative or liberal
Has an STD</p>

<p>Is a conservative.
Is rude to his mom.
Is extremely religious.
Smokes.</p>

<p>Basically I agree with Giggitus, but with male-version.</p>

<p>What's wrong with more than two kids?</p>