Hi Parents,
We have a son who is deciding on schools now and a daughter who is finishing 6th grade.
For many reasons, when we started our BS search, my husband restricted our search to 2-ish hour drive from our home.
Even though we live in the country in Virginia, we were able to come up with 3 solid choices.
Now that DS’s options are rolling in, we are having some misgivings about even allowing him to go to a BS; here’s why:
DS got WL at his 1st choice due to FA. That school is now over-budget on their FA budget so no kids on the WL will be offered FA. So that school is not an option.
He got offers & $$ from 2 schools: Georgetown Prep and Mercersburg. Both schools have +/- and are about equal in our eyes for very, very different reasons. TBH, neither would qualify on our list as #2 Choice…more like very distant 3rd (MB) & 4th (GP a close 4th). GP offered DS a HUGE scholarship, though…enough to bump MB by a long shot!!!
My problem with GP is that DS is supposed to be leaving home for a BS experience and that school doesn’t really qualify. And the more I dig, the less I like what I see on the BS side of the road. But I have ZERO qualms with the academics.
If we suck it up and let DS go to GP for a less-than-great BS experience, we really are NOT getting what we want.
PLUS, since it’s all boys, DD cannot attend. So where does she go?
MB is not an option. If you have college savings, they take 1/2 of that and chop it off their FA award so we will never get enough $$ to send her.
I had a parent tell me that things could be different if she applied to the WL school. But I talked in detail with the AD at our current school (who has also done BS and College admissions) and he said that it is HIGHLY UNLIKELY that she would be admitted if DS was not (they are different but both equally as qualified). He did not think revisiting that school as an option for DD would produce a different outcome and thinks it would be a lot of work for the same emotional crash in the end.
Madiera is within driving but from the little I have heard, I am not sure it’s a fit for DD. Neither is Foxcroft (drivable from my home!). Do any of you know much about Madiera?
We obviously need to make a decision regarding DS very, very soon. But, considering where we live, I need to also weigh in options that are feasible for DD in 2 years. If the only viable options for her are public school or doing K12-Homeschool then I don’t know how I can allow DS to take scholarship at GP. It would just be plain W-R-O-N-G on so many levels!!!
I’m looking for OPINIONS (I know, dangerous, huh!?!?!), suggestions, school options, etc. that fall short of moving.