dd has doubt on early decision application. any advise?

My D’s both did ED. Oldest did ED2. She decided after ED1 that was her top choice. It wasn’t her reachiest school, more of a realistic reach but her clear top choice.

D2 did ED to Brown. Stats and grades were in range but was deferred and then rejected.

I never would have allowed them to apply ED to a school that was not their clear top choice. D1,pulled her other apps immediately upon acceptance.

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OK, I think the OP has received enough feedback. I’m invoking the mercy rule and closing, since it’s just become a savage beatdown.