Deadlines Missed- Help Please!

<p>I'm applying to competitive colleges as a member of the class of 2014. My dad and I had an agreement that he would fill out all of the financial aid forms if I searched my colleges' websites and found out what was due when. I made a list of every deadline for every college and gave it to him. I checked a few days later and he said not to worry about it. I checked again on deadlines (March 15th, February 1st, etc.) and he again told me that he had taken care of it.</p>

<p>A couple weeks ago, I got an e-mail from one of my safeties warning me that my financial aid application was incomplete. I forwarded the e-mail to my dad and told him about it. Again, "Don't worry about it." A week later, I got another e-mail: "URGENT: Financial Aid Application still not completed!" So I confronted him more directly; he admitted that he may not have done it. I was of course furious, but I can't do a whole lot; if I got visibly mad at him, he would just get mad at me and put it off even longer. So I nicely asked him to do it as soon as possible, reminding him that my financial aid would depend on it (my parents are helping a lot with my tuition, but only because they value education so much, not because we're rich; we can't afford college without financial aid). He said he would do it. I thought that he simply didn't do this safety's forms because he has (unrealistic) high expectations and thought it was ridiculous that I applied there in the first place. That of course didn't make it okay, but I was less concerned since it isn't a school I was particularly excited about anyway.</p>

<p>Then, today, I got an e-mail from a school that I would love to attend. It said that my financial aid application was incomplete. Now I'm really freaking out and I don't know if he did ANY of them, let alone the safeties! I'm considering deferring whatever college I get into to take a gap year and my dad's habit of missing deadlines may make this financially necessary, but I'm beginning to worry: can missing financial aid deadlines have any impact on the rest of the application? In other words, can this chronic lateness get me rejected?</p>

<p>Sorry if the answer is here already; I searched and didn't find anything. Thanks for the help!</p>

<p>I would ask your dad politely for the tax return for 2009 and file the fafsa yourself to be sure it’s done. If he actually doesn’t HAVE the 2009 return completed, then I would estimate based on last year. Do you have another family member or parent who can intervene? If you get this looked after really quickly, you might still be okay to proceed!</p>