<p>Hi guys. Umm. I know it seems totally pathetic and stupid. But basically, I live in a triples with two other roommates - who are pretty closes and nicknames have matching things already. Don't get me wrong, they are perfectly nice people. But I don't seems to be able to really connect with them. They seems to like the same thing & has the same sense of humor and I just seems to be the odd ball of the room. For example, they enjoyed a different music style then I do. I like the mindless pop music while they like bands and stuff. I am really open to new stuff but it just seems pretty hard to connect with them since they have this SPECIAL BOND already. I do have friends in the building, but I just can't visit them all the time. </p>
<p>Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I hope I don't sound too whiny.</p>
<p>You’ll find your best friends even if it’s not necessarily them. You’ll be alright, just keep being an open and friendly person and meet a lot of people.</p>
<p>You don’t have to be bffs with your roommates. As long as y’all are cordial to each other, that’s fine. Friendship is just the icing on the cake.</p>
<p>try to meet other friends, if you are having troubling, try applying for a new room for the spring semester, Someone is bound to drop out or get kicked out. Maybe you will make friends with your new roommate.</p>
<p>You may just not end up being really good friends with them. Last year my two roommates were best friends since middle school. I was worried that I would be the odd man out. But, we all got along great and all three of us are now the best of friends. A lot of it will depend on how willing they are to let you into their “circle.” My roommates last year invited me to go with them places and they were easy to get a long with. It helped that we all had the same sense of humor.</p>
<p>@ forreal 100 thats no reason to change roomates.</p>
<p>If She doesnt feel comfortable in her own room, then maybe it is…</p>
<p>Thanks for the suggestion guys. I don’t think it such a huge problem that I need to change roommate. I just don’t have much friends on my floor, since there seems to be a lot of upperclassman, who often tends to be in their own group. I do have friends on other floors and other building. But such that it might get a little loney (hehehe. I sound so pathetic.) beside I can’t just go bother my friend all the time. But they never really didn’t anything inappropriate or offensive. We have been really respectful to each other but other than that… there wasn’t much exchange :/</p>
<p>Try to include yourself more with them. As time will pass, some of them will rub of on you.</p>