<p>Much as I believe CC shouldn't be a forum for discussing matters such as these, I don't think it would hurt to offer my own perspective. First, I would like to ask the OP - why these questions? What did you hope to find in the responses you got? What's the objective behind all this?</p>
<p>Anyway,
1) Did you or your child pray to God?
2) Did you/your child get into your/your child's first choice school?
EDIT: 3) What was your first choice at the time of prayer?
4) Do you think praying made a difference?</p>
<p>I did pray, but at that time, I never knew I would get in to where I am now, and when I did, it became my first choice. But I would like to point out that prayer is not some kind of magic wand or spell, that gives us what we want whenever we ask for it.
When we pray, in Jesus' name and in accordance with His will, God may say yes, or no, or chill. God answers many other prayers and cries for help in His infinite mercy.</p>
<p>This is not to say that you can't get in by your own works. Of course you can. And it will be ridiculous to say that good grades, high SAT scores, great talents, will not give a good chance at schools of your own choosing.</p>
<p>But for those who are surrendered to God's will and rely on Him, they attribute their talents and abilities to God. And surely, they'll ask Him to show them where to apply to in the first place ["Commit to the Lord whatever you do and your plans will succeed" Prov 16.3], and if it His will, they get in wherever He pleases.</p>
<p>So it's no like we do everything, apply and then say some magic words so we get in where we want. Not at all. Of course, all I've said may not make sense to the rational mind...so, in short, I believe prayer is about seeking and knowing God's will, and not about trying to force your plans or desires upon "God".</p>