<p>I’ve noticed that the shy guys are actually the sweetest and most considerate. The ones that don’t get noticed because people don’t pay attention to them. When I talk to confident guys they either playfully tease you or start boasting about whatever. Oh and the confident guys are normally the players who have a string of girls always with them or following them. Subconsciously I think if you see others liking a person, then some girls also start seeing the appeal.</p>
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And then he will ask the girl if she likes his pretty pink nail polish?</p>
<p>Where is the line between confident and cocky? I try to exude confidence, so I think that I usually come off as cocky. :/</p>
<p>Self-confidence is attractive, but not when it becomes cockiness. Shyness is also attractive to a degree. It really depends on the individual…and in my opinion, guys find self-confident girls more attractive than girls find self-confident guys attractive.</p>
<p>Cockiness and shyness are both great because they stimulate some sort of intrigue imo. But the key is being able to understand when they’re going to extreme and show that they aren’t always like that. aka, they are capable of carrying a conversation or being modest.</p>
<p>It’s like this, at least for me:
When guys are confident and they are able to approach you or they have a style of their own, then it is respectable and attractive. However, when they know they are hot and they flaunt it and only talk about themselves (aka cocky) then NO.
However, it is cute when there is that shy guy who is a little reluctant to come out of his shell at first but once you get to know him there is actually something there. But, guys cannot be shy to the point where they refuse to speak to you.</p>
<p>there’s a fine line between self confidence and arrogance.</p>
<p>^ from experience, men have torn down that wall a longgg time ago.</p>
<p>also from experience, i’d prefer a lack of self confidence in guys, as harsh as it may sound, any time, any day.</p>