<p>Essenar,</p>
<p>If you read my previous post when I said you shouldn’t be okay with her dating only Asians and Whites and then I continued to say that a Vietnamese person could probably find more in common with a Mexican person than with a White person… Well, I didn’t read your original post well… As it appears you ARE Mexican… So… Yeah, that is pretty stupid how she treated you. But if you wanna date an Asian girl, you gotta work with her and make her comfortable with the fact that she’s dating you. She has to overcome her socialization. Don’t take that stuff personally as… If she’s dating you… Then that shows she likes you for who you are. But then you gotta show her that a major part of who you are is that you’re CULTURED just like she is. And if she can’t accept that… Then move on, my friend.</p>
<p>I find it funny how so many non-Asians who objectify Asian girls think they’re so bomb and are so good with Asian girls when in reality dating non-Asians is frowned upon by the previous generation and this generation. And, keep in mind, I’m not saying that this is you… As you clearly do not objectify Asian girls. ahaha</p>
<p>And regarding beating up the kid who was racist to you… Just just foolish, man, and that’s not something you should repeat to people as it appears you’re bragging about it. Expressions of physical dominance imply to people personality, intelligence, etc, etc deficits. Why not get to know that kid and show him your culture and take in his point of view as well? That’s the way to fight racism and that’s the way you’re going to have to handle racism if you want to date people from other backgrounds.</p>