<p>my father is an overbearing mongrel.
excuse the sob story that ill add as bg for this question:
my dad tells me that if i dorm, im going to need to follow his 3 rules to guarantee that i dont bcome a dropout like my sister
1. if i can't get a gpa of 3.3+ for the first semester, im returning home
2. he wants my pw for grades so he can check them at LEAST once a month</p>
<p>and the cherry on top
3. he's gonna physically come and check up on me every weekend (OGOD pls let him be bluffing)</p>
<p>as a result, im ptfo, and now im looking for some random scholarships so i can pay my own way through my first year of college so that i say screw you, i dont need your signature or money for my education so i can lock myself in my dorm and never have to see your face (i got 18K as gift aid, and i need to pay 11K in loans, but my parents are hoping to just pay it off from the get go, and if i loan im going to have to pay it off myself)</p>
<p>basically my question is whether applying for scholarships now, considering i alrdy told ucla i havent gotten any scholarships yet, will affect my gift aid money (especially money from the cal grant that i THINK is from the blue and gold program thingie).</p>
<p>also, if i'm 18, does that mean i can basically not depend on my prnts for anything for college? or do i still need their signatures or anything from them in this acceptance/housing process?</p>
<p>again, sorry this is so long but PLEASEPLEASE help me escape this mini rikers island.</p>