<p>I am the mom of a recruited athlete who has his likely letter in hand.</p>
<p>While the process seems mysterious, the coaches at all the schools that recruited my son were honest and straightforward about how they worked. They told us how many slots they had, how many players at what positions they needed to fill, what the bottom line academic stats were, etc.</p>
<p>My son had a very specific profile of the school he wanted to attend. Any coach from a school contacting him that didn't fit the profile was thanked, but S explained that he was looking for (as an example) a medium to large school with a great D1 lacrosse tradition, great academics, a business program, in a rural to suburban area, on the east coast, and no further south than Duke, no further north than Boston.</p>
<p>At the same time, the coach has profiles of his needed recruits. The academics have to fit, along with the position, skill level, athletic abilites, and style.</p>
<p>Since the coach has usually seen the kid play before making contact, the first question after how is your season is how are your grades. The coach needs to know if the kid has a shot at admissions before wasting his time.</p>
<p>The NCAA has a ton of rules about athletic recruiting. If your student athlete wants to play in college, check it out online.</p>
<p>What everyone wants to know is how much slide is there for an athlete. I was able to ferret out Duke's numbers by some diligent googling a year or so ago. This is from memory -- so I might be off a little, but the gist is the same. Typical Duke student -- 1400 SAT, typical lax player -- over 1200, basketball -- 900. Lots of slide!</p>
<p>My son was contacted by over 75 D1 and D3 schools with a smattering of D2. He <em>unofficially visited</em> schools he was interested in with me and my husband. After July 1 this year, the coaches got serious. There's lots of gossip about committing early -- it's only verbal and it doesn't really count. In fact none of it counts until admissions gives a yes after receiving transcripts and scores. Coaches can get an early read from admissions, so it's possible to do your unofficial visit in July and make a verbal commitment, get a positive response from admissions in August (so now you can tell people you are committed to BigU and it's only August) do an official visit in September, apply ED, get your likely letter, and the official ED acceptance in December. </p>
<p>However, although S has his likely letter ... I am not posting on the Big Master List of College Acceptances until he has his definite letter!</p>