<p>Lets look at all your options and the worst possible, realistic outcome according to me. xD</p>
<p>You tell him that you like him : He says he does not like you. (Do you think things would get awkward from that point on?)</p>
<p>You let your friends ask : He does not like you. (Maybe things might not get awkward because he wouldn’t know that you asked his friends to ask, so he would not know that you like him)</p>
<p>If you find out if he likes you first, what difference does it make? Would you move on to another person if you find out he doesn’t like you?</p>
<p>If he said he didn’t like me face-to-face, things would be a awkward at first, yeah, but I imagine we’d get over it eventually. We’d pretty much have to once Forensics starts next year, since we’re both Extempers.</p>
<p>It would be less awkward if his friend found out for me, but I imagined he’d guess that I had asked. Doubt he’d confront me, though.</p>
<p>If he doesn’t like me, I’d probably return to dreaming of upperclassmen from afar. There’s no one else I have my eye on atm (at least, no one single).</p>
<p>Flirt with him a lot and see how he takes it!</p>
<p>Be really friendly with him… Hug him when you see him/say good bye, pay extra attention to him, touch him unnecessarily (like placing your hand on him while you’re talking), etc. Then see how he reacts to it. Does he pull away, or flirt back?</p>
<p>If he flirts back, he’s either SUPER flirty or you’ve got yourself a date. ;)</p>
<p>^Yep girls are like colleges: they either reject you or accept you!</p>
<p>And if a college (girl) comes to ME…well, its like they’re offering me a full ride (no sexual pun intended). No guy would turn her down =P
Good luck MissxSilverWing! Also remember that guys like shy girls. At least I do :]</p>
<p>@MissxSilver: One more thing you should consider: What does your gut feeling say? There were plenty of times when I misread a female flirting with me. My guts said she wasn’t right, but I kept wanting to believe the girl was into me and that I should ask her out.
I had to learn things the hard way :[
Trust your gut!</p>
<p>That’s very terrible!! That’s apparently very common with girls hahaha. They lead guys on and they end up waiting…hopelesssly for the most part >;]</p>
<p>First: Why are you asking this question here?</p>
<p>Second: Why am I taking the time to post this…</p>
<p>But anyway, IMHO half the people here watch too many high school tv shows. This is actually concerning to me… Now I’m afraid people are constructing elaborate theories about anything I do in the presence of females… But to me, doing any of those things is just being friendly, and doesn’t imply any romantic intrest in the girl.</p>
<p>^ First: Why not. Maybe some of us have been through crushes and OP is looking for advice on hers.</p>
<p>Second: OP has a crush on the guy. She wants to know if the guy likes her back without directly telling the guy that she likes him. She never directly said that he is romantically interested in her BECAUSE he did so and so and no one has ever implied that. She’s wondering if there’s a possibility he likes her back. </p>
<p>We’re giving her advice on how to find out if her crush likes her or not. </p>
<p>^ Sorry, I wasn’t trying to be critical or anything. I was just wryly pointing out that a) CC is not exactly an expert panel on this subject, and b) I am probably wasting time here.</p>
<p>I just wanted to put in a word for the fact that not all boy-girl interaction need be flirting.</p>
There’s no one else I have my eye on atm (at least, no one single).</p>