<p>I agree that you should maximize what you can as far as scores go...within limits. If you spend so much time trying to accumulate a resume that you don't have time to enjoy your high school life, you will have cheated yourself out of part of your life. My daughter's score was within the mid-50% range. I imagine she could have really borne down and studied and pushed it to the upper part of the range, but to do so would have really added stress to a life already busy with college level courses, varsity athletics, school leadership offices and...yes, indeed, a social life and a strong network of friendships, as well as some time spent reading fluff magazines and watching chick flicks. To her credit, her attitude was that if she were in range, if the university wasn't willing to look at the entirety of the person she is, it was their problem. Quite frankly, I think it was that kind of attitude that helped her get accepted early action.</p>
<p>My own opinion, page, based on my observations as an alumna with a son in his second year at ND and a daughter who will enroll there in the fall, is that ND pays a lot more attention to the whole person, the character that tests and GPA's cannot quantify, than a lot of people on this board seem to believe. I've seen it on these boards, I've seen it in the kind of people they accept. </p>
<p>Some highly competitive universities are known for trying to create mini-societies, handpicked by demographics of income, race, geography and special interest. Notre Dame really focuses on the person inside, beyond the statistics. In either case, statistics get way too much weight from folks on the board than they really warrant. Statistics answer the question--can they handle the workload and be successful here? Once that is established, the decision is made on the basis of far more than that... I believe that is the case at any highly competitive university. </p>
<p>Just remember, if all you do is put your nose to the grindstone in order to reach the next milestone--be it admission to a university, a graduate program, a career track--just when exactly does that moment come when the benefits accrue? And can it possibly make up for the amount of time and life lost obsessing on getting there? </p>
<p>It's one thing to be driven by goals. It is another thing completely to be enslaved by them. </p>
<p>I'm not saying that any of you are, just that you need to take a step back and make sure that you aren't...</p>
<p>Enjoy your youth--it passes quickly! You'll have plenty of time to fret and worry when you have three kids, a mortgage and a dog...</p>