Dorm/Residence drama

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<p>Anybody dealt with B.S. in your dorm regarding girl/guy tension, i.e. dormcest?</p>

<p>I banged a girl from my residence for the first time since I moved here, and my prediction was right, the ensuing drama ain't worth it!
It turns out my good male friend was in love with this girl, having talked to her non-stop for the past two months in a seemingly platonic relationship. I hooked up with her when I was drunk at a party, never really having talked to her before. My poor friend never even touched her, and worships this girl. He's quiet, sensitive type, I'm an obnoxious A-hole. Suddenly everyone thinks I'm a scumbag. Now the girl I hooked up with doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, as all the other girls say I'm no good.</p>

<p>Men, don't let your impusles get in the way of your better judgement!</p>

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<p>We've got a little bit of dorm drama as a result of Halloween weekend, and it's funny because literally all the people involved (including me) are going to be sharing an apartment in NYC for the weekend. Throw in at least 4 handles of vodka...and this weekend could be very interesting.</p>

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<p>it is so special when to classy people get together, ain't it?</p>

<p>first, how did everyone find out? who talked? sex isn't a spectator sport, so how did everyone get the dirt?</p>

<p>if you were a gentleman, she must have told</p>

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<p>I don't live in the dorms, but I hear enough in the hallways, gym, etc. Sure am glad I don't live there. It's the guy/girl stuff I hear the most about but also the guy/guy and girl/girl stuff--and I think same-sex fights can be even worse sometimes. Especially catfights.</p>

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<p>the only drama i have in my dorm is that surrounding the stealing of beer.</p>

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<p>i still am curious about how everybody knew about the hooking up? what, no one has any boundaries and has to share it all?</p>

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<p>neither of us really said anything about what we actually did, I think people heard the groaning though, plus she prob. confided in one of her close friends, news spreads, it happanes that way no matter who hooks up in our dorm</p>

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<p>so,, eww, tacky and soooooo middle school</p>

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<p>Kinda sucks that everyone thinks YOU'RE the scumbag when it takes two to tango. And it's not like she wanted your friend anyway, because if she really did, you two wouldn't have ended up hooking up. The fact that what happened spread to everyone else is pretty sh**ty too.</p>

<p>eh, you'll get over it.</p>

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<p>well obviously my floor has stuff going on like every other floor...there's been the frequent floor whore, (I've gotten firsties every time :) ) and such, but mainly just drunken hookups at parties. it's college, you should probably get used to it...</p>

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<p>either you are adult about sex or you are immature, interesting that those that hock up willynilly, and I am talking about the females, get all upset but they go in knowing it is meaningless</p>

<p>and for the guys, well, serves you right if you get looked at like a scumbag, you probably are</p>

<p>sooners.brian, hope you use protection and if someone get pregnant hope you are man enough to step up</p>

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<p>No drama; I live in the honors dorm. However, we have had recently a lot people engage in nerf gun fights in the hall.</p>

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<p><em>I don't live in the dorms, but I hear enough in the hallways, gym, etc. Sure am glad I don't live there.</em></p>

<p>Hear hear!</p>

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<p>Around here honors dorms have just as much drama as non-honors dorms.</p>

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<p>Very little drama around here, but I suppose I stay away from most of it. </p>

<p>I've done a bunch of pretty stupid stuff though, though nothing too crazy.</p>

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<p>You only get drama when you participate in it - if ya don't want the drama - stay off the stage :D</p>

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<p>not a lot of drama here, but then i don't spend a lot of time here. Mostly like someone else said, just girls stealing alcohol. </p>

<p>Also, we don't have any boys on our floor, which could contribute to lack of drama.</p>

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<p>That what they put a door on the room for. I learned this in the professional office I rented for the last 20 years. If you want to avoid drama, close the door. It doesn't stop at college. Later on it becomes office politics and there's an old expression "never dip your quill in the company inkwell.." I think you can figure that meaning. </p>

<p>As far as the hookup, are you complaining or braging? I can't tell which.</p>