<p>So, I'm rooming with someone from my H.S. We were never great friends in H.S. but it was a convenient pairing, I consider myself to be friends with him now though.. The first semester was fine, you know sometimes little things bother you, but I'm pretty tolerable about that, I'll let it go... THis I can't let go though. Heres it goes... im gonna be real detailed, be prepared... its long, and im ranting and rambling. Enjoy.</p>
<p>So this kid just broke up with his gf. Cool. In college I have become a kid who is extremely motivated to do well... I spend a lot of time at the library and Im constantly trying to get work done. The previous 3 days I'd been working on a crapload of work and got maybe 5 hours per night, not enough for me... My work was handed in Tuesday and I was able to relax and figured I'd get some much needed sleep. Anyways, I have classes beginning at 10:10, meaning I have to get my **** together starting at 9:15. Last night my roommate brings this broad in from a few floors down, who I hate. I do not care if he hooks up with her. I am not in the room alot to begin with so its not a big deal, but once it affects my sleep, Im <strong><em>ed. Ok, so I go to sleep at about 1:30 AM. At 2:15 AM my roommate and I are in bed and I hear the door swing open(he likes to leave the door open, I have no *</em></strong>ing clue why)... its the girl and her roommate looking in the room, they laugh and giggle back to the elevator waking my ass and my roommate up. I fall back asleep. I hear the door open again, check the time: 4:05 AM. This time its my roommate and this broad. They do what has become a twice or three time a week ritual, which is get into bed together, talk incosiderately loud and make out. Again, I have no problem with him hooking up, I am willing to leave the room(if Im around) for an hour or two if it is reasonable time. 4:05 Is not reasonable time. Its important to understand the setup of our room.... we have a big box room and our beds are alingned where the head of his bed is and the head of my bed are seperated by about 4 feet. Yea, bad news. Anyway so, I wake up and they are having a normal conversation, Im *<strong><em>ed but dont say anything, I try to put my ear plugs in, they dont do *</em></strong>. This broad loves talking, she wont *<strong><em>, she talks, he talks, and then she laughs real loud. OK, so then they start making out, this is the most disgusting noise I've ever heard. I've never heard kissing sound as disgusting as they make it sound. You know those really annoying people who eat with their mouths open? You know that gross sound when their eating something moist and their toungue is smacking their food and the side of their mouth, yea its gross... and the fact that I have the image of my roommate kissing this broad to go along with it makes it worse tenfold. Anyways, so my roommate is doing his thing, I figure they'll be settle down be quiet... I was wrong. He turns on the T.V. which is *</em></strong>ing huge and hence really bright which makes it bright and noisy... awesome! 5:30 AM rolls around, Im now wide awake, I can't fall asleep.... Im *<em>ed. They are still talking at a ridiculous pace... I can't hear what they are saying really, its stiffled whispering... but its loud and pitchy. Im lieing awake in bed and trying to be considerate and not interrupt them, and too make matters worse, this punk puts on Titanic on T.V... *</em><em>? So first they wake me up, then I cant fall back asleep so I figure I;ll atlest get some entertainement, but he tortures me with Titanic? I start wondering if Hell is being locked in a room with this exact situation, nah... Hell is probably awesome compared to this. So Its 6:15, they are still going at it, talking and kissing... Its been over two hours... all the bad things I wanted to do to him and her enter my mind... I figured 2 hours is sufficient time, so I start making hints that Im *</em><strong>ing tired, Lawning mad loud and coughing and sneezing. He knows he woke me up, as I'd been restless , once I sneezed, and he says "God Bless You!", Is he *</strong>ing kidding? I was <strong><em>ed, I wanted to address him at a better time, so I didnt respond. Once I yawn loud, and she looks back to see my eyes wide open. She starts whispering to him... 15 minutes later he looks back, I kept my eyes open hopeing he'd feel like a piece of *</em></strong> and make her leave. Wrong. They begin whispering about ,me, she at one point said, "I feel so bad..." then continued to do the same *** for the next hour. So all finally she leaves at 7:40 AM! ****! I got to wake up in less then 2 hours. It was an impossible environment to fall asleep, there wasnt a 5 minute period where they were't blabbing about something. Once the girl(im using all my might to refraim from referring to her differently) leaves I fall asleep fine. Its cool, no noise no vomit enducing sound effects. In total I get like less then 4 hours of sleep. </p>
<p>Again, Im a motivated student, I had four classes(today) and waking up on 4 hours is bad news for me. This is directly affecting my work, I fell asleep in one lecture, I felt like complete **** the others. Now, my GPA is twice my roommates, not to sound arrogant, but the kid skips atleast one class a day. He is a good kid for the most part, but the fact is just because your not going to wake up for class, doesn't mean Im not, I need to sleep to perform to the high level I want. So, I woke up and thoughts of how im going to address him have raced through my mind all day, Its time to lay down the law before this becomes more frequent and gets worse. If you're going to hook up with a girl at the expense of yuor sleep, thats fine, do it on your time, become nocturnal, but don't do **** on my watch. I cant figure out why this kid doesnt do this during the day, this is ovbiously a horrible time to be doing this, again I am willing to leave the room for a few hours anywhere between 5 PM-11:30PM to compromise. This has become atlest a twice a weke occurence, not good. I have always been nothing but considerate with this kid, I never make a ****ing noise, I wanted to blast my music this morning but didn't, I wanted to slug him in the nose, but I didn't This kid loves eating my food, I can live with that... he loves leaving the TV on at night, I can live with that... I've never said anything about either, but he crossed the line with this one.</p>
<p>So my question to you CCers... how do you address this? am I way out of line here? Whats a good compromise. I figure nothing after 12 on school nights, and on weekends I can ovbously be alot more accomodating. How do I lay down the law without him getting to upset a telling some of our mutual friends how unaccomodating I am (rolleyes)?</p>
<p>Thanks for reading, and please reply... I put alot of effort into this, probably too much.</p>
<p>Peace.</p>