Double or Single?

<p>This subject has probably been batted around a million times before, but since pre-frosh have until June 1st to make their decisions, I thought I'd reintroduce the subject. Plus, I'm interested in some help as well.</p>

<p>As a somewhat shy/quiet type who does, to a slight degree, worry about making friends in college, which should I choose? I'm also an only child, and don't know how well living with another person would work out for me. I'm used to having a lot of time alone. I've become very comfortable with working alone. While at Williams I stayed in the freshmen dorm with singles (Dennet) and liked it. I liked the convenience of the dining hall right on site. However, I didn't like the long walk to it. The other one, the Frosh Quad, (I've heard) isn't as nice, however, it's right near Paresky, and the food there is probably better than that at the other dorm anyway. Plus, Frosh Quad isn't as far out of the way and I'd imagine winters at the other (sorry, I forgot the name of it.) seem rather undesirable. However, the whole single thing does have a certain appeal for me. I've been batting the options back and forth for a while now, and my opinion changes by the hour! Any previous experience with either would be a huge help! thanks!</p>

<p>Just to complicate things, some of the Sage and Williams rooms on the Quad are singles...</p>

<p>Back in the day, I lived in Mission Park when it first opened. I was lucky to have a view of Pine Cobble and, if anything instantly rushes into my mind when I think of Williams, it is that view and the many hours I spent taking in the way the light and clouds changed from moment to moment on the hills. </p>

<p>As a first year, I lived in Sage and ate mainly in the dining room there (Baxter -- pre-Paresky). I had a single in a suite for four (the rooms have all been reconfigured, but, like the newer Quad singles, it was very small). I found Sage very noisy (I was on the first floor, there was a parking lot right outside my room, and the dining hall workers and supply trucks were coming and going at all hours -- I don't know that's configured for Paresky but you could drive over and check it out), plus there was no view. The remodeled rooms on the Quad are better than they were, but they aren't as nice as the Mission rooms are.</p>

<p>I'd take Mission Park any day. For one, it was built as upper class housing and the rooms are bigger. Also, having the dining room there is great on the days when you don't have a class (or you have big blocks of time without a class) and just want to hole up and write a paper or plow through a novel. You can get to know people by seeing them in the dining room, the common rooms, the laundry room, and the halls -- and you'll have an entry and JAs to help you get to know people. You can still eat at Paresky or the other dining rooms whenever you want, and get to know people that way as well.</p>

<p>I wouldn't worry about the "long" walk from Mission. You won't be constantly going back to your room. Instead, you'll probably find places where you like to study and hang out and then you'll go back to your room only after spending large blocks of time in your classes and in those favorite places. From the photos and descriptions, it looks as though Paresky has a lot of good places for hanging out and studying (so does the science quad, by the way) and that might be a good place for you to spend time and meet people -- you may actualy be more likely to hang out at Paresky if you live in Mission than if you are nearby in the Quad. After a few weeks at Williams, I suspect that a lot of people who now spend a lot of time in cars will be more used to walking, and that what now seem like major distances on foot will seem unremarkable.</p>

<p>I'd say that, if you are hesitant about having a roommate, go for a single in Mission. Having a roommate doesn't mean that you'll meet more people, and it may mean you'll be very uncomfortable all year -- this can really be a problem for people who are quiet and aren't used to sharing a room. Wait until you get to know people and then see if there's someone you want to pick into a double with for sophomore year. To my mind, Williams is pretty unusual in having gone to offering a realistic chance for a single room to freshmen and that's a rather amazing option I'd take advantage of if I were going in as an only child, a quiet person, and/or someone not used to sharing personal space with other people.</p>

<p>More than anything, if I were you, I'd try to remember your concerns about meeting people, and make a plan and a real efffort once you get to college. Understand that whether you get to know a lot of people and gain close friends will be largely a function of choices you make every day at Williams, not so much of where or with whom you live.</p>

<p>My son lived in the quad twice, once as a firstyear and once as a JA, and in Mission as a sophomore. He enjoyed both environments immensely and had a single straight through. We the entry and/or common room set up this was the best of all worlds.</p>

<p>I'm curious, though. Can you actually choose where you want to live as a freshman?</p>

<p>momrath, you can't actually choose which building you want, but you are given preference of single or double. Since there are only a few singles in the Quad (correct?) and only a few doubles in Mission, if you get your preference, you're likely to be in one which is mostly made of your preference.</p>

<p>Are there doubles in Mission? Back in my day they were all singles. </p>

<p>The walk to Mission isn't all that far past the freshman quad.</p>

<p>I too lived in both Sage and Mission. I liked both. I guess the only advantage I see to Mission is that something like 75% of the freshman class is there, so you may end up meeting more of your classmates if you pick Mission.</p>

<p>There have been doubles in Mission ever since Williams started putting freshmen in it. Only the very large rooms (typically situated at the end of hallways?) are used as doubles, though, so the vast majority of Mission rooms are still singles.</p>

<p>The class is split almost 50/50 between Mission and the quad. I think the quad is almost universally considered more desirable locationwise - I think next year's JAs picked almost all of the quad entries before any of the Mission entries in their room draw. Rooms in the quad are basically 50/50 doubles/singles, which means that 2/3s of kids in the quad live in doubles.</p>

<p>Having a roommate is a gamble. I'm good friends with my roommate; we're living near each other (in singles) next year, and I'm glad I had a double this year. I think most roommates at least get along decently, and if there are serious problems they're pretty good about working with you to move you to a different room. But there are definitely nice things to be said about having a single.</p>

<p>Double for me. Hey, if you like rap music, are a late riser/evening person and keep your dorm "reasonably neat" you might get me as a roommate! lol</p>

<p>rl. those are my exact preferences, but i dunno if i want a double or not. But if i get one and if ure a guy then we mite be roommates.</p>

<p>My advice was for kev. If you're more used to sharing your personal space, a double may be a better or equally good choice for you.</p>

<p>Since much of Mission is now first year housing, I would imagine that the JAs would pick the Quad first -- so as to be closer to their classmates. If that's the reason, I'm not so sure their choices are highly relevant for the first years, but there may be something else going on that would be. Also, I'm not sure how the JA rooms are set up in Mission, and I may be missing something.</p>

<p>I believe that the doubles in Mission are the old end-room common/living rooms and that they were turned into housing during the renovation a few years ago. If so,that would be under 20% of the rooms (I can't remember how many rooms were in each suite in the old days and whether the number varied).</p>

<p>In any event, it is all pretty good housing for first years, especially with the high numbers of singles and the absence of triples.</p>

<p>Definitely, this winter, the Missionaries had it so good during the worst winter days. The last thing you wanted was to be stuck in your dorm because of a snowstorm.</p>

<p>That said, Paresky's popularity is still up, and Quaddies have an advantage there.</p>

<p>However, I live in the Quad and never eat at Paresky. I eat at Greylock all the time and at Driscoll, when working on my art assignments. Last fall, I ate mostly at Mission, though, and running up and down hill was pleasurable. However, if you end up in the Quad, you'll probably find that Greylock is more convenient - an easy walk, though slightly farther. Even students come all the way from Mission to dine at Greylock, because, in my opinion, Greylock is better.</p>

<p>Like Grace has said, going back and forth to your room is not much of a big deal. I leave my room in the mornings, drop in a couple times in the middle of the day and I'm in the science quad or somewhere else till I'm ready to hit the hay. In fact, 90% of my waking time is spent outside the Quad.</p>

<p>There are actually some large singles/doubles in the Quad. Sage A & E are the largest entries, and their rooms are unbelievably huge compared with those in the other entries. For instance, the singles in E are larger than some doubles in D.</p>