<p>My mom was in a shambles after hearing this, and she's useless.</p>
<p>Most of you guys are smarter than me, so can I have some advice? Please?</p>
<p>So I have this boyfriend, Christian. (i'm changin all the names.) I'm a junior, and I've been with Christian since April of Sophomore year.
I also have a best friend. Her name is Paige. Paige is a lesbian, and I'm not bothered by that at all. She has a girlfriend, Sharleen, who lives like 30 miles away. Sharleen is constantly driving down here, and everytime I get the chance to hang out with Paige, Sharleen tags along and gets all the attention.
Well today I was walking around the cafeteria with Christian and his friend Brian, when Paige came up to me and asked if I was excited for prom. (Me, her, christian, two other guys, and another girl are all renting a limo) I said that I was super excited, and Paige got fish lips and asked if she could talk to me in private.
We went out into the hall and she told me that she had bought a ticket for Sharleen to come down and go to our prom. I said "cool."
Since Paige is paying for 50% of the limo while the rest of us aren't, she asked me if I could find an alternate ride to prom so that Sharleen could go in the limo.
I was like suuuuper mad an said no. Then paige said that She'd already asked Christian if he'd be willing to give up his seat in the limo for Sharleen, and he said that he would only if I would too.
I went to talk to Christian after lunch, and we decided not to give Sharleen a seat in the limo. I told Paige during 4th period, and she was like "Uhh,, well she's going in the limo whether you like it or not, so one of you has to go and one of you has to drive alone."
So then in 6th period, I talked to Christian again and we decided to forget about the limo and just drive.
But then after school, Paige said that Christian told her during 7th period that he would be going in the limo while I drive alone. So clearly he doesn't care about me that much.</p>
<p>I'm too mad to call him right now, and I'm really mad at this Sharleen girl.</p>
<p>Personally, I think Sharleen should have to drive alone. She won’t even have fun in the limo if she only knows one person. Then again, if she’s not from the area, she could get lost… </p>
<p>That Paige chick doesn’t even sound like a real friend. I think you’re being tricked.</p>
<p>Well, I don’t intend to be mean, but you noted that Paige is paying for half of the limo. Once again, no offense, but I feel that you should let her do what she wants.</p>
<p>On the other hand, she does not sound like a good friend, and if I were you, I would go with Christian alone. Plus, it is more romantic that way. =P</p>
<p>First of all, call Christian to verify Paige’s claim that he’s going in the limo while you’re driving by yourself.</p>
<p>Scenario A: It’s not true. If this turns out to be the case, go with your boyfriend in his/your car to Prom. Don’t bother about Sharleen/Paige and have a good time!</p>
<p>Scenario B: It’s true. First of all, if your boyfriend of a year (basically) would rather go in the limo WITHOUT you, it might be time to re-evaluate your relationship with him. That says a lot about how he feels about you – and it’s not saying anything good. </p>
<p>Then, decide what you want to do … drive alone and spend Prom most likely alone, hook up with another group of friends, etc. Figure out a second game plan that will allow you to have a good time at Prom.</p>
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<p>And lastly, don’t blame Sharleen. The way I see it, it’s all Paige’s fault. If she wanted Sharleen to be there for Prom/go in the limo, why didn’t she speak up when this limo plan was cooked up? Why did she wait till now to ask if you could give up your seat?</p>
<p>Wouldn’t it have made more sense for her to tell you beforehand that there wouldn’t be room in the limo for you? Anyway, she doesn’t sound like a “best friend.” And what about the other people going with you guys – can’t one of them drive themself?</p>
<p>OMG, I seriously just read this again and this Paige chick sounds like a state of the art *****.
What about these boys who clearly don’t have dates? The limo should be for people with dates first, not people going single. Boot one of the guys. Or Paige.</p>
<p>I would be really suspicious that Paige is lying. Don’t get mad at your bf if there’s a chance he didn’t actually do anything mean…all of your anger should be well-directed, don’t waste any of it</p>
<p>I went to Christian’s locker this morning and was just casual and said “what’s up,” and didn’t bring up the topic of the limo for a few minutes.
I asked if he was still planning to go in the limo, and he said that he is. I told him that I was clearly booted out of the limo because of Sharleen, and he was confused. He said that his friend Wade (who’s one of the single guys going in the limo) said that Paige and Sharleen upgraded to an 8-person limo instead of a 6-person limo, I was cool with that. But then when I was talking to Paige at lunch, she said that we still had the 6-person limo, and she even had a list of everyone that was going in it. Christian was on it, but I wasn’t. She was completely clueless about the 8-person limo, and she texted Sharleen, who didn’t reply before the end of lunch. So obviously Wade doesn’t want me in the limo for some reason.
When I got out of school, Sharleen (who is on summer break already) was waiting outside for Paige, smoking. I went up to her and tried to be friendly, but she was a bi*** and said that I’m being an attention sponge. She was like “I just really feel like if you go in the limo you’ll get my date’s attention and i’ll be completely forgotten about.” I just kind of nodded and walked off.
I called Paige and told her to tell me what the hell was going on, and she said that Christian and I are both going in the limo. But now Christian is telling me that Sharleen stopped him outside and said that he couldn’t go in the limo either.</p>
<p>I think you should find a bunch of people to jump Sharleen when she’s waiting for Paige outside of your school.
Then she won’t wanna go to prom, and then you’re back in the limo.</p>