Thanks all!
I realize I sound a bit like a baby with the driving but the eye thing is pretty serious and can be excruciatingly painful. I am really worried about a 5.5 hour drive and then more driving later that day and that’s even with decent weather. I wouldn’t do it at home on flat land I know well and definitely not in inclement weather. 2 hours has been generally my max at any one stretch, 3 in a pinch. Yes, it is the same amount of travel. Maybe more. But it’s less than half the time behind the wheel and that’s pretty huge to me. Both my H and my S are not a big fan of the drive idea as they see how it wipes me out. There will be plenty of driving over the course of the week without this long stretch.
But lots of valid points on both sides of the drive or not drive question!. Nothing is really final at this point but none of us are feeling good about the drive.
However chatting over it with S, he’d actually vastly prefer to spend the night in Pittsburgh (his idea) and fly out from there in the am and leave Allegheny after we are done for the day. Really not sure what that might look like in terms of where to stay to even see anything but there really is no reason we can’t do dinner there and that makes for an easier am. Not sure yet how late his day will go but very unlikely to be past 5 and quite likely significantly earlier. I think we will still have time to check out Meadville in some fashion.
So…any imput on that idea??? Obviously plenty of hotels near the airport but what might be good to do for dinner and in town?
Not at all sure yet on the Philly part though, other than we are going to Ursinus. We have a new option for that evening, I have a friend who lives on the way to Baltimore and is right off 95, would get us about 30 min closer than staying in Philly overnight. Plus it would be free and great to see her. It would mean not seeing Philly but I am not sure how much we can see with one night and not getting there until dinner. Not sure it’s worth the large detour to do it.
It does look like both the Comfort Inn and the Clarion have an airport shuttle so that may be the best option given how late we get in. Just take it back in the am to pick up the car.
@Gatormama yes, it would have been nice to consider Muhlenberg but oh well.
@1518mom yikes on the in the headlights. S17 had a horrid interview with Ithaca (local) and while it wasn’t quite that look, it didn’t help it move up on the list. I was impressed he didn’t take it off just based on that but it was definitely a factor that helped make it easier to cut when the money offer didn’t wow us.
@Longhaul I am not sure (nor do I think is he) how much of an outdoor vibe he wants or needs, which is the point of the tour. That by itself won’t seal the deal. We toured 3 schools over spring break junior year that were all outdoorsy but each in very different ways. None were applied to. It will be good for him to see a variety. However a school that is uber focused on sustainability and it’s visible on campus will get major brownie points. Given our schedule he won’t be able to do a class (they want you there early am for that) but they are going to try to do a faculty meeting and moved our tour to 1 and he will be able to do lunch with a student. It’s better than just the standard tour if nothing else.
I will likely not do a trip report on UPS although I suppose I could include his music audition as part of the trip report lol. We’ve been twice already and will likely be back 2 more times. Happy to answer any questions at all about it. My BIL and Cousin both went there as well.
@gardenstategal I think the travel times are likely equal but this breaks it up for my eyes which is important. Winter driving, night and bad weather kill me.
@klinska thank you for your input on both! I am looking forward to seeing them through S’s eyes. I’ve been extremely impressed by Allegheny on the overall communications throughout the entire process and they’ve been lovely working to really make the most of his day there.