Emergency Question

<p>so this creep on facebook messaged me wanting to get to know me, and told me to IM him. as stupid as i was, i IMed him (AIM) and he was talking about sex and how it is so fun and he wanted to have it with me. he kept calling me babe and stuff cuz he thought i was cute from my facebook profile picture. i said i'll block him and i did, on both AIM and facebook. i'm wondering... is there any way he cant find me, my details, where i live, or access any information because he knows my first and last name from facebook. and i have a very unique name that no one has. i also changed all my privacy stuff on facebook and AIM. i'm scared!! should i be worried??</p>

<p>is your info available on the ucla directory? if so, set everything to private. i think this is done by ursa. keep in mind ursa closes at 1am.</p>

<p>don't put any personal info on your facebook or any profile you may have. if you have other profiles, don't use the same picture for them. make your wall unable to be read by anyone who is not your friend (because friends can inadvertently post personal info). don't let pics be seen by nonfriends.</p>

<p>get a new AIM screenname, because he has your screenname and he can contact you using a new, unblocked SN. </p>

<p>if you have any personal info on him, report it to campus police. you aren't at ucla yet, but he knows you go here, so that's relevant.</p>

<p>UCLA directory. log into URSA and make your info private.</p>

<p>hopefully he hasnt looked you up yet. your address, phone, and email are all listed publicly unless you make it private</p>

<p>was he even a UCLA student? or just some random dude?</p>

<p>he is a UCLA student. i am so stupid and regret what i did ugh! we even argued about sex being a sin or not -_- and i said he's not my type and he's like i don't care you're cute.</p>

<p>by the way, i don't think incoming freshmen info had been released yet, because i tried looking myself up a couple days ago and it didn't work. i put everything on do not release anyway.</p>

<p>liyana, should i still change my screenname if i put my settings on "only people on my buddy list can IM me"?</p>

<p>yes. because that setting is going to get insanely annoying once you meet a bunch of new people who aren't on your buddy list ;)</p>

<p>okay thanks.</p>

<p>should i be worried AT ALL after doing all this? i'm scared he's gunna find me or where i live or something... i wanna sleep tonight!!!</p>

<p>he might've just been playing with you. you can go to sleep</p>

<p>Oh man, Jeyday, I'm so sorry you're going through this. If I were the buff type, I'd say I'd go beat this guy up for you. Rather, I'll pray for you.</p>

<p>Is there any reason to keep stuff public on URSA if you don't have a creepy person interested in you?</p>

<p>I think he was just playing, too. Did you save any evidence? Transcripts?</p>

<p>Eh, don't worry about it. I've had plenty of creepy guys say creepy things to me online and I'm still around. I've also been stalked a bit by a guy in real life, and hey! Everything turned out alright. </p>

<p>I would only start becoming concerned if he keeps trying to IM you with different SNs or from different accounts on Facebook. Then obviously, he has some control issues and that's not a good sign. Otherwise, he was probably bored, looking for a screw, and felt like taking a chance of being an ass online to see if he could get some. </p>

<p>Just don't let him worry you out. People are stupid online sometimes, but that doesn't mean they're going to hunt down your address and then rape and murder your family. So relax.</p>

<p>no he wasn't just playing... at first i thought he was joking and stuff that's why i kept talking... but he kept asking me inappropriate questions like what i do for fun and if i drink or have sex and when i said i'm not like that he's like it's fun, you should try it, i'll show you blah blah. i told him i'll report him and he said "i'll miss you". i just don't want him to track me or something... stupid creeps. he was born year 1983 too... i even told him i'm 17 and underage...</p>

<p>thanks for the support you guys.... he can't IM me with different SNs cuz i put my settings on only people who i have on my buddy list can IM me, and i took him off. but i'm changing my SN anyway.</p>

<p>i apologize for this thread and my stupidity lol</p>

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<p>LOLOLOLOLOL</p>

<p>I'm watching you PeskytheBobCat...</p>

<p>Oh, yes, I know SFV2008, I know. <3</p>

<p>LISTEN. I really think jeyday_lovely is turning into dawritingmachine II?!?!?! we got to put a stop this. i mean DAMN i was excited last year too, but i didnt populate the ENTIRE forum with my threads!!! </p>

<p>as to the guy, hes prolly just kidding around. i doubt he has the guts to do anything. and i HIGHLY doubt that you will see him on campus...i mean, cmon 35000 students??? what are the chances? UNLESS he stalks, which will not happen because you hid all ur private info. im really sorry one of your first experiences of college has to be like this...and uhh, in the fall, if you choose to go to the frat parties, might wanna consider which parties to go to, and whether to drink or not. </p>

<p>and no, pike doesnt rape...ughhh some dumb biach started the rumor and it spread like fire. but some of my female friends DID almost get raped...so just be aware of your surroundings at all times. and its best to stay sober, for a girl. </p>

<p>for a guy, make sure you dont lay the wrong chick, lmao! wake up next morning and regret it, HAHAHA!</p>

<p>I would just say on the safe side and report him. There is always a chance that he's crazy. Maybe he's not even a UCLA student.</p>

<p>yeah, report him.</p>

<p>dwm II! >.<</p>

<p>dwm, you are NO! NO! NOTORIOUS!...ly fussy</p>

<p>dawritingmachine, wut you gonna do about it? a challenger has come for your throne?!?!?!?</p>

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That means he's 24/25 years old and a graduate student. You won't see him unless he's the TA for one of your classes. :rolleyes:</p>