<p>"NU has access to a large city, though Cornell's location is absolutely gorgeous and has a very hip town with plenty of stuff to do."</p>
<p>Agree with this.</p>
<p>"If it matters, many students make weekend trips to NYC. "</p>
<p>Well somebody is usually going there each weekend, it's probably not hard to get a ride. But it is over 4 hours away. </p>
<p>This does not remotely resemble Northwestern's proximity to Chicago; frankly I wouldn't even mention it if I were you.</p>
<p>It is true though that Northwestern is in a suburb (a dry one at that). The train ride to downtown probably takes a while. But at least there is an Evanston stop, so one can get there.</p>
<p>I've lived in both Ithaca and Chicago, and loved them both, though for very different reasons.</p>
<p>The suicide thing keeps getting dragged out, has long been dispelled. It is true though that Cornell engineering is a very tough school, and is not for everybody.</p>
<p>Problem is, my daughter has friends at Northwestern who have exactly the same complaint.</p>
<p>My daughter's friends say the frat scene at Northwestern is pretty pervasive and influences social life. Cornell also is like that, but to a somewhat smaller extent I believe. This is one of the key features that turned her off from both of these schools.</p>
<p>AS for Ivy League, nothing IMO could be more irrelevant. Unless for some reason you care who your school plays sports against. Now that I think about it, there is a substantial difference in this aspect between the schools. If you care.</p>
<p>The one factor I usually like to point out to engineering types is that, due primarily to the presence of these other colleges that some people here like to look down on, Cornell has about a 50-50 male-female ratio. I know a number of engineering friends who met their mates there. In contrast, many of the tech schools are lopsidedly male.</p>
<p>Northwestern though is also fully coed. I don't know if the theater people in their communications school are willing to hang with the engineers like the pepople in Cornell's Hum Ec school do. But at least on paper there is a decent ratio there too, I recall.</p>
<p>Maybe look at the comparative breadth and depth of relevant course offerings?</p>
<p>Another consideration might be where you want to wind up after college. Both schools will attract national recruiters, however,some engineering hiring has a regional bias. Grad schools probably too, to an extent.</p>