Essay help please!!

<p>Hi, I'm applying to several UC schools and would really appreciate feedback on an essay I wrote. I can't afford to have a professional look it over. I've seen some great critiques on this site so I'm hopeful someone can help. Don't worry about hurting my feelings...I can take it! Thanks in advance.</p>

<p>Prompt:
Describe the world you come from, your family, community, or school. Tell how your world shaped your dreams and aspirations.</p>

<p>The greatest influence on my future aspirations has been my family, particularly my mom. I was only six months old when she woke up and could barely see out of her left eye. It was the last in a string of unusual symptoms that finally led to her diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis (MS), a degenerative neurological disease. My mom’s condition is one of those things that has always been a part of my life. Her illness and its impact on our family has helped shape who I am and what I want to do in life.</p>

<p>My mom’s disability from MS has advanced slowly over the years. I have witnessed on a regular basis the difficulties it creates for her in accomplishing tasks most of us take for granted. Some days are better for her than others. MS is like that, very unpredictable. My mom can go from being happy and active one day and then wake up the next morning barely able to walk. However, even when the disease is at its worst, she is always hopeful. She is encouraged by recent medical advances and believes a cure may soon be found. </p>

<p>Witnessing my mom’s struggles has allowed me to see firsthand how new medications help control her symptoms and slow the disease’s progression. Her illness had also introduced me to a variety of medical equipment. These devices have made me keenly aware of how advances in medical technology can improve a person’s quality of life. For example, a brace helps my mom walk by delivering an electrical impulse causing her leg muscles to contract. She is able to walk better and trips less because of it. </p>

<p>Through my connection with MS, I became involved with the MS Society. By volunteering at our local MS Society office, I have had the opportunity to see the many ways this disease impacts other individuals and families. I have also participated in the MS Walk fundraiser annually for several years. This year I co-captained our team and raised almost $2600. The money will go to fund clinical research to help those suffering from MS. </p>

<p>My contacts with MS have helped form my ambition of making life easier for people suffering from chronic neurologic illnesses and injuries. Like my mom, I am optimistic that advances can and will be made in the near future. That is why I want to pursue a career in medicine, clinical research, or engineering where I can make a meaningful contribution. Having a parent with a chronic disease has allowed me to see that meaningful progress is being made on a regular basis. Cures and treatments are being discovered and employed. Because of my mom, I want to be part of that process.</p>

<p>This is a touching essay, but the readers will have read many that are similar. It does not tell about your best qualities and it doesn’t really help the reader know you better. For example, the fact that you participated in a fundraiser tells about what you’ve done, not who you are as it would if you went into more depth.</p>

<p>I suggest you try to dig deeper, show how your mom’s disease affected you on a personal level and how it ultimately led to your growth. In doing so, its also important to show yourself in a positive light so the reader will want you to be a part of their community.</p>

<p>I agree with the guy above. Honestly you need to cut/ax most of the information focusing on your mom and how the disease affected her. Instead replace it with stuff that you have actually done and problems you’ve experienced during YOUR struggles.</p>

<p>CHD2013 and bomerr, thanks for much for your feedback. Your suggestions are great!</p>

<p>I’d actually say that you did a pretty solid job of focusing on you instead of your mom, aside from the second paragraph. When you describe the equipment she uses, you come back and mention that it has given you better knowledge of neurology, for example.</p>

<p>Still, a little extra attention to the “you” side couldn’t hurt elsewhere in the essay; even though I picked up on the stuff, you did blend it pretty subtly at times – meaning there’s no guarantee that everyone will notice the personal connections, or consider them strong enough. Just sprinkle in a little bit more self-emphasis and you’ll be great.</p>

<p>Thanks for your feedback JohnSmith. I’m focusing on that second paragraph in my rewrite.</p>