Essays: so be yourself only if it is appealing

I feel sort of bad for the many posters asking about their essay ideas and they are often shot down as too personal or dangerous. I do it too… Doesnt this sort of prove that the essays (and by default the applications) are all a big show? No room for the weak, sad, quirky, clingy, vegans…

Lmao @ vegans

I think anything written for a college app, an internship, an etc. is a show… But not in a negative sense. You don’t want to emphasize anything negative about yourself. It’s giving off a good first impression in writing.

But yes, the applications are definitely a show, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

You don’t show up for a first date in your ugliest shirt. This piece of advice applies to applications.

Note it’s still you in there but wear your Sunday’s best…

You are selling yourself. If you think a college wants a weak, sad, quirky, clingy person, by all means, write an essay that reflects those qualities.

I get your point, but it’s not much different from trying to get a job. You put your best foot forward. A student always has the option of going to community college and transferring without having to submit “fake” essays about himself.

True… I saw a stream of essay posts and it just hit me that it is all a bit superficial.