Ever Got that feeling?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Apparently, I acted like a jerk to this girl I really like. She has to be one of the nicest people I have ever met. She never says bad things about others and never criticizes anything. She always thinks of those that are not are fortunate. I met her 1.5 weeks ago at a soup kitchen. She was telling me About how sad it was that the homeless people weren't aloud to get seconds and they weren't full. We had a really deep and interesting conversation. So after the conversation, I decided to give her my phone number. We then started texting, and apparently she went to my school. Apparently, she ran for historian for Key Club. She lost because no one really knew who she was. People didn't even know she was a freshmen. Then just a few hours ago, I ticked her off a lot! She told me how Asians do everything. Then, I joked to her that everything is Asian Infested. This really changed are view and said don't hate and that you're basically hating yourself. Then I replied sorry for being a jerk, and she ignored it. I really feel like an a######. I wish I has been more considerate of her feelings. Do you have any ideas on how to make this situation better?</p>

<p>OT: We arent in any of the same classes. her ethnicity is white while my ethnicity is Asian. (randomness)</p>

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<p>sounds like she cant take a joke</p>

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<p>^I completely agree</p>

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<p>She was pretty impressed because she thought I must love helping other people.</p>

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<p>^Me too…</p>

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<p>Definitely sound like she can’t tell the difference between a joke and a blind horse… :confused: Don’t feel a-holish. You were just joking, she’s the one being over sensitive for no apparent reason really…buuuut if you like you should be like “Hey the other day, it was just a joke”</p>

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<p>Haters gon hate.</p>

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<p>Um, I don’t understand why she said asians do everything, then you made a self-deprecating joke and she didn’t understand it? Find someone with a great sense of humor, bro.</p>

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<p>Or, she’s trying to be all “damsel in distress” so you pay more attention to her and grovel for pardon.</p>

<p>Either way, sounds like a keeper yo! Way to pick 'em</p>

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<p>Yeah, she was like “Asians do everything” - a slightly racist statement since she’s not Asian - and then your statement was clearly a joke, since you are actually Asian
(or maybe as white people this girl and I are just more sensitive to other people being racist than to ourselves haha. At any rate, it’s obvious it was a joke)</p>

<p>Hopefully she gets over it for your sake, since she’s totally at fault IMO</p>

<p>Niquil is probs right at any rate</p>