Hello Everyone,
I am a 43 undergrad. I had gone to school in the 1990s and took maybe 8 courses with a 1.0 GPA. I went back, part time, in 2013 and have maintained a 3.75 GPA. I recently found out I exhausted financial aid. I have been a little upset at the office of financial aid right now so I may sound bitter.
I have a disability and have had one for a few years. On the outside I look healthy. That doesn’t mean I am well. For example, I recently found out I have a degenerative nerve disease due to the disability.
I have been killing myself slowly, by pushing myself to focus and maintain a high GPA. In 2016, I found out I couldn’t work in my present career. The need to graduate was even greater.
I appealed FinAid Office August 11th. It is now October 15th and they have yet to contact me. For weeks I was calling them and waiting in limbo. I finally got someone to explain, 2 weeks ago, that financial aid was exhausted. Then I got the same line, “let me send an email for a status update”
I have written in to the Dean of Student Affairs, the college I attend in the university and made many appeals over the past few weeks/months. I always get turned down for scholarships. The internal Office of Scholarships is IN the office of FinAid yet they don’t share information. I missed the fall quarter deadlines for internal scholarships because my paperwork had not been processed.
I receive and email to the Dean on Friday letting me know that “some good news would be coming soon”. I replied saying I am not ungrateful but no amount of good news will help me at this point. I need that letter showing exhausted funds and why my appeal was denied. This is for SSDI, to restructure my mortgage, and appeal to a non-profit to help me get caught up on the mortgage. The mortgage lender is the one who will dig deep to ensure I can repay, if I am in school, how much time I have left, and if I can graduate. Same process as when I got my loan.
This is an open question: I’ve considered all options. The school will place me in collections by the end of the year if I don’t pay this quarter’s balance. I already pay $400 a month for a high interest loan to pay a balance from 2 years ago. Not making that mistake again. If I get a job, I will need to take time off. It will be longer than 6 months so I can pay off those high interest loans and then school loans kick in. That pushes me back even further. I am 43. Do I keep buying their “oh but you should stick it out” line? Do I just say, “I guess this was never meant to be?” Do I complain to the University presidents office? (people have been fired for less. I do feel someone needs to be fired in FinAid office for dropping the ball)
I don’t know. It’s impacted my grades and I did drop one, making a D in another. I simply don’t care anymore. No amount of good news is going to “make this better” As far as I am concerned, 60 days means “automatic denied” and I have to explain that to my mortgage lender. (they really want to see a letter) Not sure what to do anymore.