<p>I posted this on the parents section but was directed to this area which is obviously more appropriate.</p>
<p>My younger son is a 9th grader, and is a very talented lacrosse player. We are NOT sports people, both my husband and I did not participate in sports (does track in 8th grade count and aren't big followers of sports in general, though we both are decent golfers. Amazingly our kids are very good atheletes who love sports. We are fully supportive of all three of them and happily get them to each and every game, practice and tournament.</p>
<p>We live in a hotbed for lacrosse (Maryland), meaning its UBER competitive around here. He also plays in this areas top youth team which competes all over the northeast. He is attending an invitational only camp next summer as well. He will play varsity as a 9th grader and basically we hear people talking about kids reaching out to colleges as early as the end of their 9th grade year to me, seems nuts but what do I know?</p>
<p>We dont' want our own lack of experience or ignorance to the wide world of competitive sports to hinder his chances at playing for a good college one day. But at the same time we dont' want to become crazed parents doing things well before the normal protocol. </p>
<p>If anyone has any hard sound advice based upon their own experience, would you mind commenting on your thoughts as to what if anything a 9th grader should be doing with regard to future aspirations to play at a division 1 school? Thanks....</p>