<p>OK the last thing I would ever do is ask a bunch of nerds how to get a girlfriend, thats really counterproductive. But seeing as most of my friends are guys, I figure I should start diversifying and invest in some female friends. </p>
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<li>What the hell do girls talk about that isn't girl talk (besides sports?)</li>
<li>I don't want them to get the wrong idea that I'm trying to flirt with them because that just ruins the point.</li>
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<p>And I was just kidding about the nerds part I know your all cool.</p>
<p>I have a lot of girl and guy friends and we just find common interests. We just talk about random things from school, to movies, and beyond. Sometimes we will talk about cars and dances and random foods we all enjoy. I think we all compromise in that sometimes we will talk about more female oriented subjects, while other times we will talk about more male oriented subjects. I think there is a fine balance developed between the two.
Also, ^I agree!:D</p>
<p>You can start off casual conversations about teachers, hw load or even projects (Oh man! We have so much hw tonight. Mr.Smith is cruel!). It’ll take away most of the awkward confrontation.</p>
<p>Humor is great : ] Movies is also another good topic.</p>
<p>I didn’t really have a lot of guy friends until sophomore year because I felt that all the guys in my grade were really immature. I was friends with them, but I wasn’t close to anyone of them. </p>
<p>But now I have three or four close guy friends and most of them started out with Facebook chats. Once you learn more about the person and what they like (and how they talk), it’ll be easier to connect with them.</p>
<p>girls will talk about anything.
as long as you don’t seem to be hitting too hard on them they won’t think you’re flirting or anything.</p>
<p>what is girl talk btw? like gossip/boy talk? you should talk about pokemon crystal and they might say they were happy cuz that was the first time they could actually be a girl on it. (:</p>
<p>I hve lots of girl n guy friends also. Im just myself and nice to them. They think all guys r ******s. So I make them feel better. Sometimes it indirectly leads to hooking up lmao</p>
<p>If by girl talk you mean gossip and talking about boys, I don’t do that so much with my friends. Well, I do with my not-close friends, because that’s all they want to talk about (which is why we’re not close). But with my close friends, I just talk about anything. This or that issue, college junk, what movie shall we see, then about that movie, random stuff, crazed ranting, etc. anything. It’s mostly random stuff, so it’s probably the things you talk to you’re friends about. I never talk about cars or sports though, because neither one interests me, but I also don’t sit around talking about Gucci’s new pret-a-porter collection. I actually do care about Gucci’s new RTW, but my friends don’t, so I shut up about it.</p>
<p>I’m pretty oblivious to flirting from guys I know, so unless you’re really blatant, I’m just going to think of it as normal friend stuff. From randoms though, it’s always obvi.</p>
<p>Gee, all my girl friends talk about **<strong><em>es non stop. They know more about *</em></strong>*es than I do; I actually had to do some research.</p>
<p>Yeah you’re not really supposed to try, it’s just supposed to happen.</p>
<p>And actually I’ve found that most girls will think you just want to be friends if you try and flirt, not the other way around (or maybe that’s just me not trying hard enough haha).</p>
<p>Start out with school talk lol. Maybe talk about random stuff.
I suggest you start by commenting on people’s facebook statuses or something.
I do that regardless of whether I know the person or not lolz. It builds relationships.
All of the above also works on guy friends/whoever.</p>
<p>Lol, it’s like you’re talking about a stock portfolio. </p>
<p>Well, friends are generally made by having similar interests and always being together. That’s why kids on the same sports team always end up friends and stuff.</p>