<p>OK I'll admit I've never had a female friend, yes I'm one massive loser, which is why I'm here right now. I've come close, but either been afraid to pursue it, or blown it. How do I make female friends? Another one of my problems is that sometimes they get the impression I may be hitting on them, which kills it unless they're interested in you personally. Probably, this is one of my big problems, as how can one have girlfriends if he has had no female friends, right?</p>
<p>Dude, enough already. This is like your 10th thread where you say the same thing…</p>
<p>this is more than just a whining thread. I realized I really need to know this to go forward. Knowing this could be what does it for me</p>
<p>If you’re looking for just friends who are girls, treat them as if they were guys minus the sexual-connotated jokes and other “man” subjects. be urself.</p>
<p>if ur looking for a girlfriend (relationship), keep on hitting bro ;)</p>
<p>Become study partners with them, I told you…</p>
<p>Part of the recipe=good sense of humor+nice smile+good listener+acknowledge what the girl says+don’t dominate the conversation+don’t be clingy+don’t curse around her the way you would around the guys+be nice+be accepting of her (looks, personality, good points and not so good points–remember, no one is perfect so don’t ever expect or demand perfection).</p>
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<p>You should be flirting with them, regardless of whether you want to pursue a relationship or not. </p>
<p>Let’s face it: whether they want to be intimate with you or just friends, they’re not looking for another girl friend. They want guys to hang out with too. </p>
<p>Kinda like the way guys call up girls to go to a party together or something, every group needs members of the opposite sex, know what I mean? They’ll be expecting you to flirt at least a little bit.</p>
<p>I’ll admit, communicating with ladies is something I specialize in. In the coming days I will prepare a 15-26 page guide on how to confront every situation, with all variables presented.</p>
<p>You, my friend, are about to become a P.I.M.P</p>
<p>Go straight up to them “Hi, I’m _____, and I just want to be friends.”</p>
<p>Screw girls. Get a fish! I mean come on, there are WAY too many threads on CC about this, it’s ridiculous, how can this many people not know how to make friends, it should be so natural.</p>
<p>ron paul supporters shouldn’t be talking about what floats other people’s boats</p>
<p>Lakrosse, no wonder you have issues making friends. You’re 5’2.</p>
<p>You make yourself look very desperate by your posts, which is a major turnoff for girls.
I’m guessing that you’re slightly socially weird by what you post, but I could be wrong. Before you start making a ton of friends, I think that you need to evaluate the good and bad parts of your character and work on it a bit. The friends will come once you do that.</p>
<p>God, someone stole my username.</p>
<p>Anyways, go Ron Paul in 2012!</p>
<p>(btw, I’m the original RonPaul_2012), the one that likes UW Madison and has been here for a while.</p>
<p>girls like shy/awkward cute guys. keep on (trying) hittin’. :D</p>
<p>not really</p>
<p>they (we) like alpha males</p>
<p>at least in ____</p>
<p>No, I don’t like shy guys either. I don’t have time for people to come out of their cocoon.</p>
<p>Stop with the whole pedestal mentality first of all. You act like women are a different species, when in reality at any college campus you should be able to find many that share common interests.</p>
<p>Personally, you sound really creepy and probably exude it - even if you don’t realize it - in real life.</p>
<p>Step 1: Stop being obsessed with The Ladder Theory, The Pecking Order and all its variations.</p>
<p>Step 2: Forget about sociobiology/evolutionary psychology no matter how unfounded or founded the theories are.</p>
<p>Step 3: Just relax and live.</p>