One issue with going OOS is travel, as mentioned above.
To accommodate those costs, while also minimizing them, look instate or at states that are very closeby. University of New Mexico is often very generous with merit to those who live in nearby states.
What will your major be?
I know that on this forum large numbers get thrown around quite easily. So much so, that much smaller numbers can seem “easily do-able”. However, families that struggle with money issues and medical bills do not have “extra money” leftover each month. That’s why they don’t have savings. That’s why they have credit card bills.
Obviously, we don’t know your family, but we know many families who can be described the same way that you’ve described yours. They can’t come up with $100 extra a month, much less $300…at least not most months.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen families sign up for the “payment plan” at their child’s college, thinking that making monthly smaller payments will be “do-able,” but soon they start missing payments and their child needs to leave the school.
I don’t think Alabama would be affordable because you’d only get 2/3 tuition award.
I don’t think WUE schools will work since you can’t pay 100% of tuition, much less 150%. WUE schools generally do not let you get the WUE discount plus merit.
YOU need to find schools that will give you a MINIMUM of free tuition.
Also…you’ll need to work/save every summer.
On FAFSA, did your mom include her husband’s income? Did she include your college savings acct?
Do you have a sibling in college? If not, then your EFC must be higher.