<p>Simmer down folks. I’m not trying to be snappy or ungrateful. How you guys arrive at that conclusion is beyond me.</p>
<p>@LMmomof2 - I’m sorry that my statement stings when I certainly didn’t mean to hurt anyone. And I’m sorry that your son has been wait-listed. But schools don’t accept students only based on how much they want to go there or for how long they’ve dreamed of going there.</p>
<p>Please don’t assume that we are ungrateful because we’re certainly not. I was delighted when my brother was accepted. Yet, I was upset when I learnt how much aid we would receive. That has nothing - absolutely nothing - to do with how grateful I am/we are. I’m disappointed; I’m not complaining.</p>
<p>Your usage of exclamation marks in every sentence tells me that you’re excited and worked up.
Please calm down, and understand that just because some don’t have the money to attend UCLA does not mean they are ungrateful. By the way, it’s nothing new to hear that kids with stellar stats get rejected while kids who don’t shine as much stat-wise compared to those with stellar stats get accepted. It’s quite amusing how you categorize OOS and International students as “apparently ungrateful”. </p>
<p>@uclastudennnnt - I am grateful. Good God, why do you think I’m not grateful?</p>
<p>And no, I don’t realize how much CA residents pay in taxes. I’m sure it’s a lot but that’s irrelevant to my point. My point - How can a college expect a family to pay more than 6 times a student’s EFC?</p>
<p>My friend, I come to CC for advice and guidance, and I too spend my free time trying to assist others as well. Why do you think I’m ungrateful? That part just doesn’t make sense to me. Why do you think I’m snappy also? I’ve tried my best to be as polite and as kind as possible. </p>
<p>If you make out something completely different from what I’m trying to infer, that’s not my problem honestly. Yes, I stand by my point - It really is sad that there are students who won’t be able to attend such a nice school due to a lack of aid. I have no idea what makes that sentence “snappy” or how that makes me ungrateful. If anything, that statement shows how much I pity those that come from a financially not-so-well off family such as my brother. </p>
<p>@2018dad - Wonderful. Please explain to me what it is you’re trying to tell me. I’m not trying to be rude, but how much you pay is completely irrelevant to me. It’s how much you pay based on your financial situation that matters which is why I asked this question in the first place. </p>
<p>Are you the only breadwinner in the family like my dad? Are you laid off at this point in time like my dad? Do you have to pay for another kid in college like my dad has to pay $12,000 a year for me? Is your daughter’s EFC less than 5500, like my brother’s EFC of 5231? If so, would you still be ready to pay $36,000 per year?</p>
<p>My brother’s EFC is 5231. Yes, I know that doesn’t mean we are expected to pay only $5231. I’m in college and I’m asked to pay more than double my EFC which is fine.</p>
<p>UCLA is asking my brother to pay more than 6 times his EFC. </p>