<p>Legend, so great to hear you are at Penn. I remember you very well and knew that somehow you'd get yourself to Philadelphia!</p>
<p>Do you remember the name of your dad's lawyer (the one who drew up his will?) I would call him as a first step-- update him on where you are, your financial situation, your mom's situation, etc. Also, I recall you have a younger sibling.... the lawyer might be interested in hearing what's going there.</p>
<p>Obviously none of us have a clue as to what recourse you have over your mother's reneging on her agreement with you. However, before you get tangled up in a lot of bureacracy, it may pay to connect with someone who knows your family and who might be aware of assets which were intended to go for your education (i.e. to you) and not to your mom, where essentially she has the legal right to decide how to use the money.</p>
<p>Also, are there other family members you can speak to? I seem to recall that you weren't on great terms with your mom's family.... but did your dad have siblings? I'd be on an airplane tout suite if any of my nieces and nephews needed support or $ for their education. It's hard enough losing a parent young; I think you've demonstrated remarkable resiliency and courage, and hope you've got a member of the extended family who agrees with me and can step in.</p>
<p>Keep us posted.</p>