@KTVoice re post #42 I wrote this a long time ago and it’s been sitting in drafts because I never had the courage to post it. I think this conversation is one of the most important ones we have on CC and I’ve been stalking for the last 3 years.
I love Malcolm Gladwell. His books and podcasts (especially Revisionist History) are the best!
I was recently listening to one of his podcasts and he was talking about the money that comes into higher ed and he gave a really interesting analogy about soccer and basketball. Now, I’m neither a soccer nor basketball player (so forgive me if I sound ignorant in some aspects) but I thought his take was very interesting and I started to think about the kind of college program DH and I want our kid to experience.
He said there are two types of thinking when it comes to making something better. The “weak link” theory and the “the superstar” theory…or soccer vs basketball. Basketball is a superstar sport. You can have one or two superstars on your team, while the rest of the players are good but not great, and still be a very successful team. The team, coach, manager, owner all benefit by focusing their efforts (and dollars) on developing the “superstar” because the better he/she is, the better the team is, the more recognition the program (or school) gets etc. Soccer, on the other hand, is a “weak link” sport. In other words, the team is only as good as their weakest player. There are no superstars unless those players are assisted by other players…everyone on the team needs to be great, or at least developed to the best of their abilities. Efforts (and dollars) go to developing the entire team, growing everyone’s skills and capacities, not just the superstar.
The rest of this podcast is extremely thought-provoking and goes on to interview the president of Stanford and the namesake of Rowan University in an effort to draw attention to the fact that billions of dollars are going to those universities who ALREADY HAVE large endowments. In other words, they’re developing the superstar. While folks like industrialist Henry Rowan are about “building the base”, financing higher ed for those in our communities who might not be able to attend Stanford. Of course who’s to say which of these philosophies is better than the other, that’s not the point. The point is, after listening, I started to think about my own kid and what we hope to provide her in a college education (and honestly what I hope she takes from this experience well beyond the voice and tap classes). We want a school for her that is all about the “weak link”, that is looking to take kids where they’re at and grow them…making everyone better, which makes the team better.
All that to say (if you’ve made it this far, thanks), there are some amazing programs out there, both well-known and “hidden gems”, and I truly believe there’s a fit (or two) for every kid. College is about learning, growing as a person, and attempting to find your place in the world. Here’s hoping that all of our kids find their fit and find joy in the coming four years!