<p>Another with lower stats gets in because, as I have explained, the college admissions process is quirky at best on a good day. Its ripe with injustice, unfairness and downright favoritivism towards minority groups, special interests and “favorite high schools”. Fordham is no different than any other college in that respect. Its a wicked process, believe me. I know a kid who 10 years ago was REJECTED outright ED from Dartmouth, then admitted RD to Princeton no questions asked. He went to work in the White House, then Georgetown for his Masters and now works in the intelligence community. He was DEVASTATED by Dartmouth’s decision, which will go down in history as one of the biggest bonehead decisions EVER. Totally unjustified. This kid is a STAR and now a legit hero to our nation. So Dartmouth can go kiss my rear end (and certainly his.) Every year thousands of kids (not wannabes) get unjustifiably deferred or denied. Every year thousands of kids get in with hooks, legacy, money or or some other quirky reason that nobody can explain. Every year Fordham admits people who everyone in the dorms asks, “how did YOU get in here?” It happens everywhere. Its not fair, or just or anything…and 99% of the time its not personal, its just a silly numbers game that is bizarre on the best of days. Someone from Singapore? Maybe that is the hook. Someone from a Jesuit high school? Maybe that is the hook. Maybe the admissions committee saw something they didnt like and with 24,000 applications each year, they have to cut the mustard somewhere.</p>
<p>You have my empathy and condolences. Been there, done that. I am still SEETHING with anger at another school who VERY, VERY UNJUSTIFIABLY denied my D1 and broke her heart. We went through 3 months of tears and angst and a whole lot of “growing up” with that wicked decision. When we heard who DID get in there (ping me I will tell you where), we were shocked and even more ANGRY. What is worse, someone who got in with lower stats then turned around and dumped this school to attend a state flagship for less money. ARRRRRRRRGH! Someone with LOWER stats took my kids place and then dumped the school in April. I was so livid I don’t talk to that kid’s mother in the grocery store. I heard in the grapevine that she said, “we never could have afforded it anyway.” blah blah blah. </p>
<p>So yes, you have a right to be upset and question the justice of this process. I wish I could change it. </p>
<p>What to do dowzer? As I suggested, turn the page and look forwards…focus on the match schools and EMBRACE who takes your daughter. How to do that? Go visit the campus and BUY THE GEAR once you are admitted. Buy coffee mugs, hoodies, shorts, towels, bumper stickers…anything to focus on THAT school and forget what happened at Fordham. Then go to that school…and see how she does…emotionally, academically and socially. If its a fit and she is thriving…don’t mess with success. If she does well but still pines for Fordham and feels like Fordham is a better fit for her needs/objectives? Then apply for a transfer…but you will need a 3.0…and in reality a 3.5 to lock it in…at the school she will attend. But again…that is ONLY if she isnt happy there. If she is happy and thriving…could be Truman State for all I care…then LEAVE IT ALONE and let her bask in success.</p>
<p>SUCCESS ALWAYS TRUMPS PRESTIGE AND RANKINGS.</p>
<p>Besides, graduate school is where prestige is the most important. </p>
<p>Best of luck to you.</p>