<p>I went to orientation thinking it would be a walk in the park (and, indeed...we DID walk through the forest!). Having returned exhausted...I thought I'd share some insights.</p>
<p>I'm all about details/preparedness. I feel one can never have too much information. That said, INCORRECT information can be harmful. So - take everything I say with a grain of salt. There are a few things I wish I'd known, primarily about class scheduling and logistics. So I'm gonna ramble my way through a recap of orientation...so later parents might have an easier time.</p>
<p>Overall, IU's schedule and personnel were JUST WONDERFUL. I saw only one grumpy person the entire time. My child said they also encountered only one grump. Moving 125 students PLUS their parents/family through the campus ON SCHEDULE and getting as much done as they did, has to be a life skill until itself. We had great weather, making it all easy. I pity those who have/had to do it in the torrential storms the state has been having.</p>
<p>It's two FULL days (for those of you flying and/or planning hotels). We are in-state, so we arrived the night prior, expecting to take an optional exam. I can speak only to calculus, I think the other (bio, chem?) might have been done the same. Check in is 6:30pm. This is one thing I didn't see written anywhere. No advantage to arriving early. Calculators are not required...I think not even allowed. Wander over to Wright and sign in just inside the door. TONS of people there to help. Two orientations were running simultaneously. People arriving on day one were on their own day two....when the NEXT group was starting day one. </p>
<p>We stayed at Biddle Hotel in the Union. Mold in the shower and on curtain. The rest of the room was fine. VERY inexpensive (Hilton Garden Inn for this date was $161, Biddle became available later for $119). Wi-fi is offered in room, and is free. Ask for a code at the desk. Easy check in/out. Good maid service. CANNOT beat the location. Parking is free (important when one forgets their orientation parking sticker!). There is a large bookstore with supplies as well as clothing, dorm items, etc. </p>
<p>If you opt for the following morning tests instead...SIGN IN is at 7:30am (for SCHEDULE A orientation). You can bring your overnight bag to Wright at the same time if you want/need to...and they will store it for you. You can check into your room anytime after...8am? Got different info. But you can also check in at any free time all day long. You can leave your bag in the car and get it later, take the test, etc. I THINK you get a roommate based on check in time. I don't think they're pre-assigned, but I could be wrong. </p>
<p>Kids taking the test SHOULD give a paper to their parents that says "bye, see ya back here at 2:35pm". Uninformed parents might sit and wait and wonder what to do if your kid (mine) doesn't give you the paper). Kids and parents do a "check in" at assigned time (it was early for group A, much later for group B), there in Wright. You get a "kit" with a bag, paperwork, brochures. This is the step where where you leave your donated canned food. (which, sadly, not many people remembered). You go directly from here, as a parent to the first seminar while kids go take their required math/foreign language placement exams. We heard from the new Dean of Students, other adminstrators and faculty all weekend. Overview, partnering for success, about the dorms and meal plans. We did some walking, and took a bus or two. VERY well coordinated, students EVERYWHERE to help out. COMPLETELY and perfectly on time for EVERY event. We walked back to the Union and used our lunch vouchers. Nice buffet in Tudor room. Very few parents went. It was "real food", fast, cheap ($11 or something like that!). Other options, Starbucks, Burger King, and a food court/market of sorts. I'm guessing they were pretty busy. I was at the Biddle so this was a great chance for a quick stop at the room to freshen up.</p>
<p>We went to several more meetings: financial aid, career services, ask-a-panel-of-students, etc. The students during this time were in Student to Student orientation leader meetings, and similar events. We met about 2:30 and broke into groups: General, Kelly, Hutton. We met the Dean of Hutton, and he talked about the program, and advising in general. Students of Hutton were separated from parents but the other programs weren't; not clear why. Then all went together to a couple more "talks" in the auditorium. I lost my child here, didn't think we were headed together. They sat us "disney style" (come in, down front, to the center, no gaps) - so my daughter was texting to find me but I couldn't go sit with her. Keep that in mind if you want to sit with your kids. Then Dinner at Wright food court. Lots of options though I will say I still had trouble choosing/eating. Most people won't. But..it was all so .. "Heavy?" Even salads were iceberg with ham and lettuce, you know? I found some pasta with veggies that was OK. But...lots of fried, and pizza and ice cream. </p>
<p>Parents were then free for the evening, with an optional tour of a different facilty each week (Art Museum, Lilly Library, etc.). Kids spent the evening in planned activities: meeting orientation leader, a (musical?) performance, visiting the rec sports center, and had some late night options too. </p>
<p>REMEMBER..this is SCHEDULE A. Schedule B started later, and must have gone into the next day differently because they ended day 2 later. </p>
<p>Next day and parents' only planned activity was a bursar speech. Kids were basically just registering for classes (and getting ID card - look pretty!). There were some important optional things and your scheduling time slot made a big difference in your day. Schedule A said plan on being done at 2pm. My child had THE last time slot for Hutton and we weren't done until
3:00-3:30. Schedule B says you'll be done by 6pm (I think). </p>
<p>There was a "Resources Fair" type thing at Herman Wells Library. Everyone was there, very worthwhile. Parking-housing-meal reps, Gay/Straight alliance, local worship centers, international studies dept., bookstore, athletics, IT dept, and and on and on. It was 11a-1p and you could miss it if your registering is during that time - so send your parents. Same with open dorms. You can visit 1p-3p (and you should know where you're assigned by orientation so it's a good chance to see YOUR dorm). But, same problem, my daughter was in registration/advising that entire time so I went and took photos. Buses are running and kids will help you sort things so you can ride. Most is withing walking distance but by this time...you're a bit exhausted. Don't try to get by with hard flats if you're over age 25! People wore comfy clothes and walking shoes. It's not that you walk that much, but...you need to keep your energy. I was SPENT after 2 days. Mostly back and forth/logistics (let's run up to housing, ooops I forgot my ID back in the car, I parked back at the hotel so I have to get the car and come back to get you, etc.). Anyway, your parking pass allows you into D parking lots, so you can go down to the other dorms if you want, park and tour. BEWARE...I saw a LOT of parking tickets being given in Herman Wells Library. They want us parents to tell our kids not to let this happen! READ your parking sticker! (I left mine at home but they kindly offered a replacement after I had to check out of the hotel so I needed another place to park). Dorm tours were sporadic, sketchy. If you only have one dorm to visit, no worries. But there weren't many people doing it - ODDLY. So they waited until there were several, and/or they only had 1 person doing it, or they were busy. It took some time. VERY worthwhile though. This person knows the whole building and can tell you the variables in the rooms (the other tower has different shelving, the upper floors have smaller windows, etc.). </p>
<p>Your child can check out of their room at Wright any time during the day. Whenever they have time (morning, if their advising appt is in the afternoon or vice versa). No meals are provided/paid for on this day...but Wright is still open and you can eat there by paying cash (or Biddle Hotel of course). Kids meet with an advisor first (different areas and assigned times...it's preassigned and listed on their name tages), then get a sheet on what to register for. Then you're supposed to get your ID card issued, THEN go to Herman Wells library and (get with help) registering for classes. This was reversed for my child; I think just logistics, back ups, whatever. </p>
<p>So we ended up schlepping bags back to the car about 4pm, having had NO food all day (our fault) and completely and totally exhausted. Loaded down with forms and palphlets and flyers and catalogs. The theme for the semester is sustainability...but we took home more paper than I bet my child uses all semester long. But...it was valuable. Lots of good info. </p>
<p>I already know my way around campus quite well, so I'm sure the kids do too. IU was totally organized, UBER patient with the same inane questions day after day after day. I'd hear three of us come up in a row and ask the same person the same thing. Seriously, I'm sure they work at this, but they NEVER looked anything other than glad we were there. And these are mostly STUDENTS! You do NOT really see kids like that very much these days. Their training must be Disney Style. Speaking of - I felt like I was at Disney from the time I arrived. The grounds were SO gorgeous with huge flowering baskets of foliage everywhere, pristine lawns. Then the buses arrived to cart us around and the feeling continued. The food/market/courts, the lines (yes, there was a line at check-in..but it went pretty quickly). </p>
<p>I'm sure there are a thousand tips I will think of later. But an advance timeline would have helped me avoid an extra night hotel, and would have shown me I needed to get an extra night for my dog in a kennel (we got her 11 minutes before they closed...it was a bit panicky). I could have packed less and would have worn more comfy shoes. I would have insisted my child check out early and get that done before we were so exhausted and pressed for time. I would have known (for those of you with high school Juniors or younger at this time) that EARLY orientation dates are NECESSARY to get the classes you want.)</p>
<p>So...I share with you the experience, typos and all because I'm not about to re-read this nightmare to check for errors. Good luck to you all with your IU career/experience. I hope you find it enjoyable.</p>