<p>I hate it when people touch me unless it's someone I'm interested in. But then again... I'm a bit of germophobe. </p>
<p>Actually I lied, you touch me, you die.</p>
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Not all of this is his fault. If you're allowing him to touch you like this, than he thinks it's
OK. It's obvious that the guy wants more than friendship and by not setting boundaries, you're giving him mixed messages. You have two choices:
1. Drop him as a friend.
2. Be straight with him and tell him that the relationship will never be anything more than a friendship.
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<p>Well I thought that boundary was PRETTY DAMN clearly set when he told me he had a girlfriend o_O</p>
<p>O_o</p>
<p>Tell one of your ugly female friends to start touching him all the time. Maybe he'll get the hint. ;)</p>
<p>You've been given some good advice here. It's time for you to decide how you are going to handle the situation.</p>
<p>Eww....Cooties...</p>
<p>I SUMMON MY FORCE FIELD SHIELD...</p>
<p>All jokes aside...Chill...</p>
<p>Just ignore him and when he finally grows a pair and says something to you about defining whatever, shoot him down. That's what I try to do with creepy girls anyway...</p>
<p>For a second there, I was afraid I this wrote post -same problem and it has yet to be solved :(-but when it came to writing you text messages and asking you to dinner, well then I think it's obvious that he likes you!!! Tell him straightforward, I'm uncomfortable with you doing those things or move your sit and I'm not interested in dating you, etc... I mean at least you know he likes you I believe.</p>
<p>I think the least awkward one I read was (another forum) like saying "why are you so touchy?" rather than "get the HELL OFF GRRR" or <em>punch</em>. I'll tell you guys what happens.</p>
<p>chris2k5- I ould like a force field to be honest =_= imagine some creepy chick (ugly chick how about that) touching you all the time that you have no interest in whatsoever. playing with your hair, playing footsie with you etc.</p>
<p>I'd kick him in his nuts. Some guys need to take the hint.</p>
<p>Your friend's a creep. Next time it happens, just say "stop touching me" as many times as needed.</p>
<p>I would kick him in his nuts. I wouldn't go that touchy, i just give hugs. ::hugs::</p>
<p>If you're uncomfortable, then just tell him that you are not comfortable with people touching you. Don't say it like he's at fault, say it like you're at fault for being uncomfortable, partly because you don't want to offend him (I hope), and partly because you are in the minority.</p>
<p>Frankly, I like to be pretty casual and friendly around my friends, and I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong with some occasional contact. If they are uncomfortable with it, and they don't talk to me about it, then I'm sorry that I've made them uncomfortable, but I'm not going to lose sleep over it. I can't exactly be blamed for that.</p>
<p>Okay, I'll change my initial opinion.</p>
<p>Although you have no interest in this guy, you love the attention he gives you and the attention of this forum. You knew this dude wanted to sex you from the start, before you even posted anything here. It really feeds your ego.</p>
<p>I bet you tell your girlfriends about this guy all the time to. "Oh, it's Brian again... sigh... you won't believe how he tried to hit on me in class today!"</p>
<p>It doesn't even sound like you like or respect this guy remotely, even as a friend. Drop him already. Just tell him to stop touching you. It has to be at least slightly awkward, how else will the guy get the message that he's being damn creepy? The only downside is that the guy will stop making you feel beautiful and you can't brag about his creepy desire for you to your friends anymore. Matter solved.</p>
<p>^i'll be honest, i'm clueless when people likes me because I think its rude to just assume somebody has feelings for me when they might not. I only get it after my friends tell me "duh" lol. I honestly wanted some feedback because I don't know how guys think o_O.</p>
<p>why the hell would ANYONE brag about creepy desires???? MOST girls get hit on by really creepy dudes all the time =_= its nothing to brag about i just never had one this creepy.</p>
<p>I DID lose all respect for him because I saw his girlfriend the otherday too! geez what a creepo.</p>
<p>I am ok with occasional contact with close friends and even random people sometimes. Overly sticky fingers however -<em>-.. like touching me everyday and playing with my hair and so on..urrr. I mean i used to sleep in my guy friend's bed (not this one) but i knew him well so it didn't matter o</em>O (i knew he had a crush on my friend so it was all fine) im just not comfortable with him. I can't just drop him because i see him all the time due to having the same small discussion classes ALL THE TIME. I CAN'T EFFEIN AVOID HIM!</p>
<p>Tell the girlfriend to put her man in line.</p>
<p>"why the hell would ANYONE brag about creepy desires??"</p>
<p>I don't know, ask a lot of the girls I know. It does reveal a degree of insecurity. I'll take your word for it that you are not among this group.</p>
<p>Playing with your hair? Haha this dude has it for you bad... he's probably taking long showers these days... haha</p>
<p>^actually my friend does that too LOL now I think about it. She always talks about some random guys who have the hots for her.. and I'm like.. Uhh =_= is that suppose to be a good thing because creepy guys hit on ok looking girls ALL THE TIME so it's not an indicator of anything.... in my opinion anyhoo. gets too annoying to brag about afterawhile.</p>
<p>Anyways maybe he's really touchy because he's sorta feminine? Everytime I see him I think of him as a girl rather than a dude. The gaydar's not going off but he's still pretty dang feminine (the way he talks). There's another guy who's touchy sorta too but he's like that to everybody.. although it was awkward when he put his head on my shoulder o_O like <strong><em>. I'm from a family that doesn't touch each other unless someone's kicking the *</em></strong> out of them ROFL (jkjk)</p>
<p>Yeah, I'm also sorta feminine. I shake hands by honking boobs, specifically with my hotter friends.</p>
<p>Just do whatever you want; this situation is boring and nothing special.</p>
<p>^good thing you keep on coming back to this boring and unspecial topic for some reason lol</p>
<p>If you really want to know, my semester abroad is yet to start (a week), and most of my friends are already gone back to college. I have tons of freetime between my part-time job and the occasional visit from friends who live locally. Rather than spend my time doing something productive, I prefer to prowl around a few messageboards. And this creepy guy topic is sort of amusing to me.</p>
<p>Just tell him you really see him as a brother. There are many ways to take the wind out of a guy's sails. Report back the hilarious aftermath.</p>