<p>So there is this girl i like. But she is and has been in a relationship for 3 years. </p>
<p>We have all our classes together and i spend a lot of time with her. When i'm with her, I can put my arm around her and she doesn't mind. Nor does she seem to mind when i put my hand on her leg or waist. </p>
<p>Is this a normal thing for friends to do?</p>
<p>i forgot to mention playing with her hair.</p>
<p>Maybe she is the promiscuous kind?</p>
<p>You wish..
But yea she's probably just being friendly with you.
I have learned that girls tend to rely a lot more on physical contact to foster relationships than guys do.</p>
<p>That sounds like the sort of behavior I exhibit with all of my friends, romantic interest or not.</p>
<p>To be honest, you sound quite creepy to me, trying to put a sexual spin on allowed touch even though you KNOW she has a long-term relationship. Not cool.</p>
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<p>I think all guys are creepy then</p>
<p>Its normal.</p>
<p>Maybe she's bored and looking for a little action on the side lol. </p>
<p>Seriously, it's not that uncommon for a girl to act like that.</p>
<p>Some girls are just like that. My friend is very friendly but she is in a relationship.</p>
<p>She probably doesn't mind because it seems a little feminine. No offense. It sounds like you should consider peeking your head out from under your textbooks and learn to live a little!</p>
<p>i'd love to peak my head out from under the textbooks but the thing is that i'm not as smart as most Elec Eng. ppl out there. I need to study a lot to maintain my grades to get into a top grad school.</p>
<p>is her relationship getting rocky?</p>
<p>treat her like a friend</p>
<p>Please don't take advantage of her allowing you to be touchy feely. Some girls are very touchy feely with everyone, but you should know where to draw the line even if she doesn't make it clear to you. Also, please respect the fact that she is in a relationship and don't try to interfere with it. That's classless IMHO.</p>
<p>This girl has been a 3 year relationship, and although she may be happy, she still wants to experience the thrill of feeling "single" and wanted. Girls (and guys) like to still have that ego boost of knowing that they are attractive and wanted.</p>
<p>This kind of flirting is not necessarily wrong or cheating, but be aware that she may be using you as an ego boost. This ego boost is what keeps her satisfied with her current relationship and is what makes her still feel attractive.</p>
<p>Is her boyfriend tall and strong?</p>
<p>Or, let's put it this way, </p>
<p>Can you beat up her bf?</p>
<p>If so, ask her out. Touching and playing her hair get kind of old after a while.</p>
<p>double post</p>
<p>I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I suggest you read this and therefore save yourself any further trouble: The</a> Ladder Theory</p>
<p>The ladder theory is such ********.</p>
<p>but anyway, i am writing this reply as i sit on my guy friends lap and make him massage my shoulders. haha not really but i do that a lot. i know other girls (and guys) like this. some people are just naturally more physically affectionate.</p>
<p>Of course a woman wouldn't admit that the ladder theory is true, since men have the short end of the stick according to the theory. But we all know, deep down, that it is indeed an accurate representation of relationships whether you'll explicitly concede to it or not.</p>