Friends With Benefits!

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Okay, well the thing is, I want to stay in touch with her. She is honestly a great and trusting friend. The only reason she is not calling it a relationship is because she wants our feelings/attachments to remain independent of it, and for it to be strictly fun. Believe it or not, I was the one who was leaning more towards a relationship then her, so I feel like it will be hard for there to be an attraction. If anyone will be attached, it would be me, and I think I can get over that easily.</p>

<p>Also, in response to Hill, she was the one who pretty much brought up the idea, so I don’t know.</p>

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<p>Interesting, very interesting.</p>

<p>Anyway, what I meant to imply in my last post was</p>

<p>GO FOR IT.</p>

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<p>It’s nearly impossible to separate feelings from sex. Approach with caution, chronic. I’d say no.</p>

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<p>Yes, with sex comes emotions, unless you’re a whore, then there’s a firm separation between the two.</p>

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<p>I say she’ll be fine with it during the summer, but as soon as she catches wind of you going out with some new girl at college the brown stuff will hit the fan.</p>

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<p>do it, unless she is a stage 5 clinger. that can be hell.</p>

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<p>Well, honestly I do not think she is too emotional; like I said, both us just want to have fun. Also, we agreed that it would be only for the summer.</p>

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<p>Haha, well have fun then. :stuck_out_tongue: Don’t get the herps.</p>

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<p>*do it, unless she is a stage 5 clinger. that can be hell. *</p>

<p>LOL someone watched mtv’s college life last night.</p>

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<p>No herpes! She hasn’t made contact with the male genitalia yet! Clingers = bad, especially during summer.</p>

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<p>Personally, I wouldn’t recommend it, because although girls might say something they might not necessarily mean it. Like right now she might tell you she doesn’t want a relationship with no strings attached but inevitably most girls do get emotions involved because that’s how the female mind is. Men on the other hand find it much more easy to become attached no matter how emotional the guy. Plus, the fact that she hasn’t had contact with male genitalia makes he behaviour all the more unpredictable. Just my opinion though.</p>

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<p>don’t do it. if you want to stay friends, either date her or say no. fwb can only ruin your friendship.</p>

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<p>I saw on CNN that women tend to become emotionally attached to men after they have had sex. Not being sexist, just reiterating a study that is gender based</p>

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<p>It’s all evolutionary. Men had to have sexxxy time with lotsa women to make moar babbies to help the population grow, and to have moar strong men to protect/support the community. Women had to settle down after getting pregnat to help support their own babby for it to grow strong.</p>

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<p>A voice of experience here, heed his words.</p>

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<p>Not a big fan of musicals, are we?</p>

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<p>just hit that man, it will be a good time, it might make things a bit awkward at first but its all fun, NIKE, JUST DO IT!</p>

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<p>I don’t think all straight guys are that carnal…Having a good friend to hang out with over breaks for the rest of your college life may beat two months of sex.</p>

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<p>Yes, it’s not definite, but it’s definitely worth considering.</p>

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<p>Yeah, two months of non stop sex is worth losing the friendship since you’re about to go to college anyway.</p>