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<p>I can’t answer for you, but I can say this is an easy, “no way” in our situation. My guy has a better ranked school that has offered him a very realistic price for our income and both far more research options and faculty within his desired field (neuroscience). I wasn’t certain that Furman would be worth it if it were less expensive, but I was willing to let him try and see, then make the decision for himself. (I also didn’t think he’d get such a great package from a higher ranked school.)</p>
<p>Furman is a nice school - it made our cut of just 6 places to apply to and was easily in the top 3 for choices. It’s the only LAC my guy applied to because it made the cut and others didn’t. But, in hindsight, I wouldn’t have had him apply. Their new policy is aiming toward a more mediocre level of ability in their freshman class in order to accept more wealthy students (vs higher academic ability with more aid). That’s not our socioeconomic class nor is it one I think my guy would be comfortable in. There are plenty out there who will fill the spots as it will be a terrific fit for them. It’s just not us. </p>
<p>My guy is an “academic nerd” I suppose. He has friends, but his favorite poster (hand made) that he saw while visiting colleges was, “We’re not nerds, we’re academic bad-_sses.” His favorite sport is chess (and he just finished first out of 176 in his division in our state championships last weekend). That’s what he’s looking for in a fit. He loved the small class atmosphere at Furman and might have chosen to go there due to it, but he’s since sat in on a class at UR and is thrilled about going there - esp with their multiple research options available to undergrads even before sophomore year.</p>
<p>You just need to decide what the best fit for your D is and how much you can afford toward it.</p>
<p>Furman is off, off, off for us and is even now off my list of recommended places unless I know the family fits their demographic (rare where we live). If so, then it could be a great fit and fit is what is important. Kids can find friends and get all the ‘other’ college stuff anywhere. I went to large state U and had a great time. Oldest is at a small LAC (affordable with merit and need-based aid) and having a great time. Middle will be at a medium sized research U and I know he will have a great time. Youngest? He’s a sophomore. Time will tell. He’s looking for Botany, so while he loved the gardens and beauty of Furman, they aren’t on his list due to his major (and now their financial change).</p>
<p>Look at your options financially, then look for fit for your D. What is she looking for? Have her sit in on classes at places that are affordable where she’s been accepted. A trip to check out Rollins is less expensive than massive loans for school. Chances are, she’ll like something in the affordable category. Note, that I know NOTHING about Rollins. It never hits our radar up here.</p>
<p>Furman will do fine without us. It’s not like we’re letting them down. They didn’t choose our kids for their school. (Yes, the kids were accepted, but they know fully well that it isn’t affordable.) To me, no school is worth more than 30K in loans TOTAL - not annually - esp for high stat kids.</p>
<p>Don’t be disappointed or dejected. Look for open doors rather than closed doors. Eons ago I went to a large state school over Duke for financial reasons. Twenty-three plus years later hubby and I are still happily married, both using our degrees, and are getting our kids into college. Did going to my 2nd choice school hurt me? No. I’m thankful it happened. I loved it and met my soulmate. There’s a reason for everything. ;)</p>