<p>I can feel comfortable around my gay friends because I really don't give a crap what they think about me and I don't have to worry about them liking me. They are usually better groomed and want a real friendship from girls. Plus, they are funny.</p>
<p>Idamayer is right, we are not all shallow. The truth for you maybe.</p>
<p>I don't really hang out with gay guys.</p>
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<p>haha .. 100% true</p>
<p>oh... one more thing: my gay friends (and I have a lot) don't act much different from my straight ones. Just be nice and outgoing and etc... and people will like you fine.</p>
<p>Football and March madness are extremely important. For those players, its the equivilant of your SAT tests and interviews times 10. That's what they wan't to do for a living and if they can, more power too them.</p>
<p>Though while reg. season football is > reg season basketball, March madness is far > than postseason football. This bowl system, while being better than it was pre-BCS, is still retarded. When they were looking for ways to change the postseason back when, a company submitted a 16-team playoff intependent of the NCAA, but they took the BCS, and we are all paying for it.</p>
<p>BTW, the reason the NCAA doesn't just make a postseason like it does for all other sports is because the Supreme Court said it couldn't. Something about sharing TV revenue.</p>
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<p>thats the situation for me. although we were "friends with benefits" for a short while, but we are still really good friends so i think it is possible.</p>
<p>Well, seeing as I'm not "those players," they matter not at all.</p>
<p>I'm not being shallow, I'm just stating what happens about 98% of the time where I live (Westchester NY). I don't have a problem with gay people, although I would like to dropkick and handful extraneous reasons..</p>
<p>I'm one of the straightest gay guys you'll ever meet. I'm not "perfectly groomed", I don't shop every week (in fact, I go like twice a year... I'm frugal), I like shooting stuff, I'm fairly quiet (though, if I know you, I'll talk a bit more), I'm fine going out in sweats, a hoodie, with messy hair, and looking "scruffy". I tend to be more science/math and grammar/mechanics (as opposed to literature) oriented. There's alot more.</p>
<p>But, seriously, when I tell people that I'm gay, they're caught off guard because they don't expect it.</p>
<p>you straight guys that are complaining about gay guys most not have a lot of girl friends, or atleast don't know how to treat them properly</p>
<p>yeah, we don't. we're trying to learn...or at least to figure out if thats what we're supposed to know. sometimes i don't understand the ladies. what do they want?</p>
<p>I feel bad for some guys, I can imagine how hard girls are to understand sometimes. For example, a lot of the time when they like a guy they act like the don't or they are mean to the guy. Oh well.</p>
<p>Hey, I'm a theatre chick and most of my close friends are gay guys. That's partially because they happen to be who I'm around the most. A big advantage with them is that they are real friends who don't get all competitive, jealous, and catty like a lot of girls. I can completely be myself around them without having to be measured and on-guard like with many straight guys who seem to take any hint of friendliness to mean I "want them" or some such. There's nothing worse than carrying on what seems to be a meaningful conversation with somebody for whom I have absolutely no sexual attraction and to my knowledge have given no "signals" and suddenly having him run his hand up my thigh or later seeing him high fiving with his friends who who are all "get you some." Yeah, I can completely let my hair down and be my crazy self around my gay friends, get as crunk as I like, dance like a fool, and even pass out in the same bed with them without having to worry about getting molested. They can be pretty protective against straight guys who might try to jump me while I'm down, too. Just because they're gay doesn't mean they can't kick ass! Not to mention the impeccable aesthetic tastes most of them have ...</p>
<p>omg i love gay guys! b/c all the cute ones are gay muahaha...and im hoping they'll eventually turn straight. 8) wink wink doublewink.
JK, no but seriously, gay guys are like clean, funny, usually hot, and just all-out flamboyant. (you know, that whole "feminine" side of your boyfriend you've been trying to bring out for the past two years...) now if only they'd start being bi. hahaha.</p>
<p>Ha, fishbowl, I recently started working around a bunch of theater people...but I've noticed that those who are gay hang out with each other primarily. Well, 2 of them are a couple so I guess that's understandable, but I've never seen them with girls except when they're performing (they're entertainers at the amusement park I work at).</p>
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<p>Am I the only girl who doesn't care for feminine men?</p>
<p>what about really hot metrosexuals? </p>
<p>cuz i do. i like a little balance in men. feminine when i want to complain about stuff. basically. but ionno...my current bf is hopeless. the only time he expressed emotion was yelling at the world cup on tv! and i yelled at him. and he yelled at me. and then that was that rofl.</p>
<p>I like guys who don't look like slobs, but metrosexuals who pour hair gel in their hair, wear Armani and get their eyebrows done are not my type.</p>
<p>spanks i ENTIRELY agree with you.
i couldn't date a feminine man, but i don't want some scuzzy looking slob. i like to find the balance of someone who can dress well, but just sort of manly.</p>