Here is your list:
Yale Brown Dartmouth Cornell Princeton Columbia Amherst Wesleyan Wellesley Tufts UChicago Duke Johns Hopkins Northwestern Boston College Lehigh Brandeis Carnegie Mellon Northeastern NYU Boston University University of Connecticut UVA UMiami UMichigan
Here are my thoughts.
For the Ivies you will need to have some national or international distinctions. If all of your awards and honors are at the school level, or school and state level, then it is a very long shot to get into an Ivy, and possibly the very top LACs as well.
Your selections under consideration range from small LAC to rather large public schools, and from being located in major cities of millions to being in a college town (Ann Arbor, Michigan, e.g.). They include those not known for football, to those with lots of school spirit and a culture that rallies around major sports competitions, directly or indirectly.
I suggest you do some soul-searching to really define better what you are looking for in your college experience, lifestyle and location. That decision has to be made sooner or later, and better to make it before finalizing your list than after you get acceptances. You might be able to identify your true priorities just by comparing the options you have. Disregarding any notions of “prestige” or ranking, and only looking at what your four years of life might be like, if you were offered a choice between Wesleyan and Michigan, which would you choose, and why? What about between Michigan and Miami? What about between Duke (in a forest by a small town) and Boston U (in the very heart of the city)? Go through your list and figure out what your true preferences are.
My gut impression glancing over your list is that you would be happiest in a major city, and if that’s the case, you can start narrowing the list by taking off any university/college that is not located in a major city or very close by with easy access. That’s just one approach.
If you really analyze your true preferences, you should wind up with a list of options that all have similarities in the nature and size of the university/college and type of location/city, with the main difference being in cost and how competitive admissions are. Don’t let prestige or ranking alone cause you to wind up in the middle of nowhere, e.g., if you really crave big city life with public transportation, museums, performances, internship opportunities, restaurants, nightlife, shopping, etc.