I can give some insight into your post because my S graduated from Ohio State (attending on a full merit ride) and I have a current freshman at Tech. We are OOS for both.
My S’s best friends and roommates majored in engineering. Both studied a lot and got great jobs upon graduation. You can get a great education at Ohio State. Recently another poster on CC contacted me because they had the same question. I asked my D and she said that if it meant going into debt the student should select OSU over Tech. She said that an undergraduate degree in engineering will not be much different and that if the person wanted tech, they should go there for a graduate degree. I may not be expressing it as articulate as my D did to me, but I think you get the picture.
My D at Tech studies a lot more than her brother at Ohio State, but he was a humanities major. As others have posted, engineering is a tough major. My D’s friends at other universities seem to study as much as my D (they attend Purdue, Leigh and Washington- all engineering). As others have posted, if you have good study habits and know how to balance things you will be okay at Tech and still have time to have a social life. Frankly my D has gotten the best grades of her life at Tech at the same time of being in a sorority, doing research, being in a special program, playing intramural sports and volunteering at local SWE and robotics events (plus she got a boyfriend too). Among our family, she is the most disciplined so we are thankful she is our family engineer. She regularly meets with her professors during office hours, turns in all homework and attends all classes, attends plus sessions, gets help from the help desk at CULC, keeps a calendar for everything, exercises regularly and gets at least 7 hours of sleep a night.
Her dorm has a pretty gpa average and I think it is because they encourage each other in their classes and study together. At family weekend ,Physics professor Dr. Greco told us parents to encourage our children to seek help from professors early on in their academic career. He gave an example of student struggling for 4 hours over a problem and then the student finally sought his help and in ten minutes Dr Greco asked him a few questions and the student was able to do the problem. Dr. Greco said don’t waste 4 hours of time, if you can’t figure out the problem within an hour then go see him. In fact Dr. Greco gives students his cell phone. I told my D about this and she has made it her habit. As a result I think some of her professors have been kind to her in grading because they see that she is working hard and trying to figure out problems etc. My D has not found Tech to be cut-throat; in fact every time I call I hear laughing and she tells me that she is in the study lounge working on homework with her dorm-mates. Her boyfriend, friends and sorority sisters all seem to do fine grade-wise at Tech.
It has been my daughter’s experience that the students she has encountered who have done poorly at Tech are those who spent all their time doing video games, don’t go to class or turn in assignments. Tech offers lots of academic support; the students who take up those offers seem to do better Tech. Heck my S decided to major in fraternity at Ohio State and let’s just say he had to invoke the freshman forgiveness rule.
I have attended both Ohio State and Tech’s freshman orientation and the theme of each orientation was as divergent as you can get. I loved Ohio State’s, it was all rainbow and unicorns. Student Affairs Dean Stein went on over and over about how "Tech will be the hardest place you will every be, you will get grades you never got before, you will fail…: I think you get the picture. Frankly my DH (an ivy law graduate) and myself (a top ten law graduate) were scared for our daughter and I frankly worried the whole semester because based on Dean Stein I thought my D would for sure flunk out. I think this is part of Tech’s mistique they like to portray. But think of this, what top engineering school has a stadium filled every football Saturday, what eng. school has a super fun homecoming week filled with student riding trikes through campus, has a Greek Week where students doing tug are in mud pit competing against each other. Every week Tech has something fun going on at campus. Tech students study hard and play hard. Plus if Tech was as horrible as these reviews portray I don’t think it would have a freshman satisfaction rate of 96%. Students who study constantly are understandably unhappy; students who know how to balance both social and school are much happier. Sometimes it takes a bit longer for some students to learn this balance.
My D’s friend got into Harvard Medical School this semester and she is a cheerleader and gymnast at Tech.
If money is no object then go to Tech, but if you will go into debt then pick Ohio State. It was great for my S to get that bill each semester that showed a balance of $0.
Good luck.