<p>I've lived for 17 years, I think I pretty much understand females. As for personality, they care a lot about approach and confidence, they like guys to keep a certain distance emotionally, but still be there. They actually like it when a guy is a little mean, although they will claim otherwise. As for looks, I think they are more into the overall image of the guy. Girls are very wholistic, they will judge a guy more on the way he speaks and walks than on the fine details of bone structure.</p>
<p>And as a male, I like when girls are somewhat shy, submissive, flirtatious with a little bit of an attitude. As for looks, I tend to go for more baby-faced features, short, and i like dark eyes. As long as they have a decent body, I'm not too picky, but the face is more important.</p>
<p>What a gem of a thread, lol.</p>
<p>Maybe guys can help out with this one. </p>
<p>Why is it that a guy will flirt with you in the most obvious way and practically stick his tongue down your throat (excuse my vulgarity) when they have a girlfriend? You think you're on a real path to something, and the next day you find out the guy is already taken............Do guys naturally like to hit on other girls and lead them on even when they're with someone else?</p>
<p>"Do guys naturally like to hit on other girls and lead them on even when they're with someone else?"</p>
<p>Basically. It's the thrill of the hunt. Seeing what you can get. I'm not saying it's a good thing...but boys will be boys. Spread your seed and all that. Although half of the time it's just in good fun not really trying anything. Although it depends exactly on what he is doing...</p>