<p>Lol This Is The Funniest Thread</p>
<p>i dont understand guys, its so hard to tell if they actually have an interest in u, or just want to flirt....</p>
<p>So there's this guy that I really like and I have 2 classes with him. He is really quiet and shy, and I am also, so I think it makes things even more intense. Although I've been dropping lots of hints to him all throughout the semester to show that I'm interested in him, he hasn't really reciprocated any sentiment. Very frustrating. So I concluded that he just isn't into me. There's pretty much one week of school left, and we're seniors so we most likely not see each other again. I want to express to him my feelings but if he's already freaked out by my hints that I've dropped, I don't want to say anything and make him feel more uncomfortable, you know? </p>
<p>My question is .... since he hasn't showed any interest in me, should I even bother telling him how I feel? Or do guys normally act nonchalant even though they might actually have <em>some</em> feelings for a girl?<br>
Would he be totally turned off or flattered?</p>
<p>well....it really depends on the guys personality...you said he's shy so he might just be keeping it on the DL...i mean hell...it's a 50/50 chance.</p>
<p>But I think you should just ask him to a movie one night and get to talking..don't straight up go up to him and tell him you like him...you gotta move in after a date or 2.....and go ahead and go for it...like you said...you're a senior and if it turns out a way in which you didn't want it to then whatever...what do you have to lose? you'll probably never see him again (unless you all turn out good ;))</p>
<p>and the key to figuring out guys....go out with em on a few dates...like lunch or movie or something....get to know em...if they're interested in you, they'll keep coming back!</p>
<p>^^mmm, very good advice</p>
<p>Just ask him. Guys are more willing to try anything once than girls are, so chances are he won't turn you down.</p>
<p>or maybe he won't because he's too nice?</p>
<p>Just to clarify this, most guys are not going to get any hints you drop. Just because someone doesn't get your hints doesn't mean they're not interested, maybe he just doesn't get it.</p>
<p>Yeah, just ask the guy though.</p>
<p>One person's hint might be another person's . . . well, nothing. Perhaps you might be dropping hints that are so subtle to a group, be it the world, men, women, your non-friends, ect., that it cannot be deciphered.</p>
<p>Just tell him you like him. He'll most likely go out with you if he knows. If he says no, he'll still pay more attention to you and most people start to like people just by thinking about them. Pick up your guts, march over to his desk, take a deep breathe, close your eyes, and blurt it out. Best wishes! :)</p>
<p>^^....that can turn out the other way too....they could get kinda weirded out and start avoiding you.....take it slow, try and get to talkin to him first!</p>
<p>when trying to interact with him, be ard either attractive guys or not-so-attractive girls.... u wnat the attn on yourself girl!!
but make sure u speak to him, specially if around more attractive guys... gd luck!! :)</p>
<p>i dun understand why guys dun care about their personal hygiene. girls always do n wear nice clothes and makeup to please the guys. guys should do the same, minus the makeup.</p>
<p>ummmmm....we do...lol</p>
<p>Hahaha... I just finished reading this thread and I find it very hilarious... I just wanna say that to all the guys talking about treating girls as equals/superiors.. you guys are crazy.. do not treat them well.. that's how you get taken advantage of.. treat girls the way you would treat a younger bratty sister.. make fun of them.. hit them back (why not?.. as long as you dont go overboard).. just be confident, funny and spontaneous and you're set. Never DO what a girl tells you to do.. do just the opposite.. make sure to always be in control.. Girls are not attracted to "nice" guys who do whatever a girl tells them to do.. girls want a guy who is in control of himself, confident, funny, spontaneous and mysterious.. like myself..</p>
<p>umm...good one, and1baller. </p>
<p>I would never go out with a guy under your description.</p>
<p>only because I don't wanna get RAPED. O_O</p>
<p>I agree with you mangosmom, I like guys who are nice. Stop puffing yourself up, and1baller. I doubt any girl on earth in their right minds would like you.</p>
<p>Do girls like guys with muscles? not big bulgy type muscles but nice developed ones. Maybe if a guy roles up his sleeves? also, what are the issues regarding height for ladies here? Im only 5"6 but believe me im fun to be around.</p>
<p>hell yea...</p>
<p>quesiton
do any grls like asian guys ?</p>
<p>i don't like guys with big muscles. cause again, i don't wanna be raped.
and i don't like it when guys roll up their sleeves.
i usually like guys from 5'9"-6'1". </p>
<p>i'm an asian girl and i don't like asian guys for some reason. the ones at my school turn me off with their gayness and they're all the same. therefore, i tend to go for white guys.</p>
<p>hope that helped.</p>