<p>I'm 19 years old and I live in Los Angeles. I will be visiting NYC in April...for the first time. The person I'm staying with lives in Manhattan and has a super busy schedule and I'll have to get a cab from JFK to their house and basically just go on adventures by myself while I'm there. I like to be alone, but I suck when it comes to figuring out where the hell I'm going. I worry that I will get seriously lost. I wish that I was traveling with just one other person, but obviously that isn't an option. I didn't even care really when she told me I'd have to just spend my day taking the subway wherever I want to go, but when I told my mom all of this she had this terrified look on her face.</p>
<p>I am not the most independent person, but I am trying to be. I'm nervous about the trip but I'm also really excited, and my mom, who of course has the right to worry...has kind of freaked me out. I already bought my ticket and there is no way in hell that I'm not going, so what tips do you guys have for me? My mom flipped out when I told her that my flight arrives in NY at 10pm and that I'll be taking a taxi that late at night, but I'm not worried. I mean there's nothing I can do about it, so I'll just go with the flow. But what should I do while I'm there? I might meet up with someone but if I don't...I'll be on my own for about 85% of the 5 day trip. </p>
<p>If I get into NYU and move to New York...I'll end up having to do this stuff anyway, so why not do it now?</p>